there is a lot of guys that i like but i am also a christian and i can not fall into that trap. can you help me
2007-05-21 08:02:37 · 29 answers · asked by horny guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
religion has nothing to do with you being horny......I don't care what religion or belief you have, everyone loves intimacy. If you are young, talk to your parents, or your preacher.
2007-05-21 08:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Avoid situations hwere mistakes often happen, such as being alone together at home, in the back room of a party, or on a bed. THe situation may seem harmless, but can result in something serious as date rape. Avoid drugs and alcohol which are the gateway to many regrets. These can influence you to do things that you would otherwise rject. Some people use them for this reason: so that they can blame the substances for their own behavior. It's one thing to avoid a bad situation, and it's another to avoid a bad relationship. So take the time to build a friendship first. Know your standards and make sure your date knows them too. Don't pursue a relationship with a person who wears down your morals and will physically take from you everything that you're willing to give. You deserve better. Another wise move is to date only someone you can see yourself marrying. If we get involved in relationships that we know won't last, we're training ourselves for divorce. Also, askyoursel f"What is my body wirth?" Is it for sale at the price of a movie and dinner? No matter how much a guy spends on the date, you're not obligated to offer him your body. Remember that anyone who breaks up with you because you don't give into his or her lust isn't worthy of your attention to begin with.
2007-05-21 08:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by Namaste 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Check out www.themarriagebed.com. This is a great resource for a healthy Chrstian view of sex in marriage. There are articles and forums on a great many subjects. There are forums specifically for non-marrieds. it is targetted toward those who are married or engaged and they don't want you to become a member until you are one of the above but you can still peruse the articles and postings for some great advice.
However if you are trying to avoid temptation don't read too much. The discussions are quite frank at times.
2007-05-21 08:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by mrgardenguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a christian guy myself and what I do is keep busy. If you keep busy then there is less time to think about it. If you're going out with a guy then make sure not to be alone too much and if you feel like your kisses are turning into touches and so forth, then stop the kisses till you can return to them without getting to heavy in it.
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2016-05-17 15:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out why the desire is so strong. There is an underlying reason. Maybe something that happened to you in the past or how you feel about yourself or what you feel love is. Guys and Girls are tempted, that's part of their makeup. But when it's as strong as you make it seem, then it's beyond mere attraction. You are objectifying them instead of seeing them as people. brothers. Seek the help and it will change.
2007-05-21 08:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by his.grace 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a human before you are a christian. It is NORMAL to like guys if you are a girl. Stop fighting it. It is NOT a sin.
Or, just follow the good book and restrain from all sexual feelings. Cause that's how our species is going to survive.
2007-05-21 08:06:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Understandable, you're not alone, just because someone is a Christian doesn't mean that their bodies turn off. Just go out with someone who has really strong values when it comes to stuff like that and who can help keep you in line.
2007-05-21 08:05:37 · answer #8 · answered by Revelation S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pardon my confusion....you say your a Christan but your screen name is horny guy and guys make you horny? Are you referring to the trap of homosexuality of fornication?
2007-05-21 08:11:25 · answer #9 · answered by Doctor 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, first think about all the people you know that are in relationships and having all kinds of problems. Then, askn yourself do you want your life to go down like a flamming airplane, if you don't snap back before the crash then buy yourelf a device to curb the urge. I'm not religous but I am spiritual and don't believe it's a sin to please yourself.
2007-05-21 08:09:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you already caught yourself. you are a christian. why don't you get one that you really care about and get help from him.
too many guys will only hurt you in the end. haven't you read some of the answers to the girsl who have friends that have too much sex?
2007-05-21 08:06:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋