So all the guys ive asked they have been pretty split up about the answer. If your gf, wife, fiance whatever would ask you to bring another girl into bed to try it out what would you say? Is this a turn on or off? would it depend on who the other girl looks?
2007-05-21 07:55:48 · 45 answers · asked by you probably cant 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
urstruly wow your soo rigth im just hoping from man to man bring all my other w h or es with me....it was a simple question...and actually i was asking because my HUSBAND had stated bringing someone in bed with us and when i said no he got angry so i wanted to see if there were any guys out there that would just like to plaese one person at a time, which there is. i have thought about it but wouldnt do it because i do love my husband....so grow up and go back to masturbating.
2007-05-21 08:03:51 · update #1
hell no!
i satisfy her, she satisfies me. If there is a third party, that means someone is not happy. If my girl requested that, I just leave her.
2007-05-21 07:58:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
TODAY I WILL SPEAK THE TRUTH!
If my girl, fiance, wife etc. asked me if she could bring another women into our bed I would have only 1 condition. I would have to be able to be completely intimate to the both of them. This way if my significant other begans to enjoy the other women more than me or even leaves me for her I would be able to say I had them both at once. If it's her suggestion, and I get both at the same time. I feel I still came out a winner. Strike that off the list of things to do before I die (ha ha, Im really laughing) I hope that helps sweetie.
2007-05-21 08:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For most I would say a turn on. But the jealousy part would be the reason for someone to say no. Either way you must first be very comfortable and secure in your relationship and partner. A discussion where all parties are aware of the rules and boundaries is necessary. After that have fun and enjoy.
2007-05-21 08:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by J C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's to try? Let's make it a regular thing. It would definitely be a dream come true. It would help if the other woman was slightly less attractive than the gf/wife. That way there would be less question of if the guy thought one was prettier than the other.
2007-05-21 08:04:43 · answer #4 · answered by ROBERT C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This one's easy. It's ok to bring another woman into the bedroom if you aren't married. However, if you are married do not even think about it. Women tend to lie when they say it is ok. If a guy is looking for a divorce don't let her talk you into it UNLESS YOU KNOW that she is that confident about herself and yes, it DOES matter what she looks like and WHO she is. Never a friend. EVER! By the way, enagagements; not ok.
2007-05-21 08:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by The Salesman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've participated in that a couple of times. It always sounds like a great idea beforehand and it's a lot of fun while it's happening. But afterward, there's ALWAYS hurt feelings, jealousy and weirdness. It just isn't worth it unless there's no emotional attachment between any of the participants.
2007-05-21 08:01:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on her level of comfort with it.
I would NEVER ask her to do it. But if SHE wants to... then I'm definitely interested.
I've had 3-somes.... and I also refused to have them when my ex-girlfriend wanted to... because she was too insecure.
A girl with insecurities in a situation of sharing her boyfriend always turns out badly.
2007-05-21 08:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, Well as a man I love the idea of two women, but as a Christian I would have to take a pass ! When I was 16 it happened in my big old car. Yes it was wonderful ! ! !
2007-05-21 08:05:51 · answer #8 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are pretty hot (if you avitar is you) second, it would be tough the next morning. During the heat of the moment it might be pretty great, but later??? could bring up some serious issues.
2007-05-21 07:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess it depends. I would if the girl was good looking enough and i was looking for a night of fun. But if i wanted to conceive a child or if i just wanted to be with her i would reject it. Like i said, it all depends.
2007-05-21 08:02:14 · answer #10 · answered by Holy_one 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definite turn on and it would matter what the other girl looked like!
I've tried it and it's hot, but folks have to be careful because jealousy can creap into the equation.
2007-05-21 08:01:24 · answer #11 · answered by eric_themadman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋