this girl i'm kinda together with is really bipolar about me. i know she's going through a tough time, it's been 2 years since her best friend (whom she calls a brother) passed away, and she's in a really really bad mood. but she only takes it out on me. she's always had mood swings with me, such as talking to me online for a while and then she'll stop and act weird. whats going on? does she still have feelings for me, or is it just bc she's in a bad mood and she's taking it out on me?
2007-05-21 07:52:48 · 21 answers · asked by champfan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talking to her is not as easy as u think. i try to talk to her about things, but everytime i try she goes on ultimate defensive mode and thinks that i'm going to break up with her. she's had two ex's thats cheated on her so i feel like she's too scared to get close to me. but we usually end up fighting bc she can't talk about anything.
2007-05-21 08:10:56 · update #1
dump the silly B*tch
2007-05-28 22:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really sit down and have a talk with her. She's going through a really rough time and needs you. Even if she's taking everything on you, maybe its because you're the only person that she can count on to be there for her and is afraid that you might break up with her. Maybe thats why she's being so defensive.
2007-05-29 13:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i think shes just going through a tough time thats all.
Give her some space and time and she will get better and u 2 will be okay again. Try to make her understand that u wont ever leave her unless u have a very good reason. Also try to be there for her but dont be all up in her buisness okay?
2007-05-26 22:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some space for a while and try to be there to comfort her but the worst thing you could do is be to up in her face (which you prob worn't) but she needs space. maybe you could get some pics of her and him and make a colloge of them?? Jus an idea it would make me happy if i were her! But the reason she is doing what she is doing is prob cause she doesn't wanna be aroud a guy for a while and ya she is prob in a bad mood and taking it out on u and she prob still likes u! But some people just get mad and take it out on others. So i really hope this helps and she gets over it soon.
GOOD LUCK!!! :D
2007-05-21 15:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by this screaming inside my head 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look I had an ex commit suicide right before I got into a new relationship. I found myself taking my anger out on him. I guess because he's all I had. I look back now and it has been 2 yrs. I realize there is no excuse for treating someone you truley care about like crap because of your own battle's. I would straight up ask her and see what she says. Let her know you are not going to be a punching bag anymore. it will only destroy what yall had or do have.
2007-05-21 15:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by LMFAO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she leans heavily upon you. It is time for you decide something...can you handle the pressure or are you going to crack? If she is truly bipolar or manic depressive she will not be able to handle you breaking down on her. So if this has just become too much for you, you have got to find a way out. But before you just ditch and run, find a friend of hers or family member she seems to lean on to help you out. Make sure there is someone else she can lean on. And there is nothing wrong with you deciding you have reached your limit!!
2007-05-29 00:33:42 · answer #6 · answered by Dave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's in a bad mood because her friend died, she needs to get some help to get over the pain, because it's been 2 years since he died. I don't know why she would only take it out on you. Stay away from her when she's like that and she might finally get the hint that you don't enjoy being treated like s**t.
2007-05-29 09:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by christina30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Tacos right, pal. Communication is the cornerstone of a relationship. It could be either situation but it's up to you to go and ask her what's up. Maybe just keep your distance for a while and let her take some time to cool off. But if you keep guessing, you'll end up messing up somewhere along the way.
2007-05-21 14:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by Will 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats easy bipolar people have a hard time moving on. i know cause im bipolar she most likely still has feelings for you and all you need to do is give the girl a little bit of space
2007-05-29 14:49:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its bi-polar then its her. Ask her if she can seek some counciling, or see a doctor to help her out.
If she is still with you then she must have some feelings for you. And your her punching bag sorta speak. Some people wouldn't stand for someone like that and leave in a heart beat. But if you have feelings for her, then hang in there. Theres a solution to every problem. the main problem is volunteering to fix the problem.
good luck to you man!
2007-05-21 14:59:06 · answer #10 · answered by Lilkryptonite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should talk to her and with her hopefully realizing the death of her fiend (brother) ,,she should treat you as today was her last day on earth and if she doesnt than loose her . Do you know how many women would love to have a kind man ?????? If she doesnt appreacitate you and treat you bad ,,, kick her to the curb....
2007-05-21 14:58:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋