on the 5 date? I just recently got divorced and am seeing someone for a little over one month. He's been a gentlemen and I want to... Part of me wants to wait (i'm nervous) and the other is saying (just do it) !!
2007-05-21 07:44:34 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go with caution, especially so soon after the divorce. Take time to find yourself as a single adult, rather than rush into a sexual relationship.
2007-05-21 07:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jarien 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
When it's right for you it's right. If you feel pressure or unsure wait. There is no rush, nothing to prove and I'm sure you won't hurt the relationship either way. He/she should be understanding and appreciative of your situation and feelings.
It's all up to you. You'll know when your ready to move forward in the relationship. This may be a good test for him/her as well. You may learn a lot about him/her by making him/her wait a little longer than he/she expects.
Good luck.
2007-05-21 07:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by KennyJitFu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my opinion is hello you just got out of a divorce! Have fun!! don't get too serious so soon. If you want to then hey do it but make sure to let them understand you're not into the serious relationship too soon. You are a grown woman don't be afraid, go with the flow don't expect it just let it happen.
2007-05-21 07:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by ccutestuff2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you want it.. by this time you're probably heated up and getting more nervous... so pls just do it, don't let this sex thing occupy your mind all the time.. even though that sounds hot to a guy.. I don't think thats good for a woman to be heated up all the time...
2007-05-21 07:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you feel about your ex? are you ready to move on?
how does he feel about it? is he giving you hints for it? ... if not, just wait until the right moment comes.. without planing, things just happen. do you just want pleasure or are you really interested in a real relationship? if so, let things come along as they should be. focus in getting to know him, on what he wants and how far is he willing to go with you..
don't base the future of the relation in sex...
if you are not interested in the relationship, just do it and see what happens after that
2007-05-21 07:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by laa morenaaaaaaa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's okay for 2 consenting, available adults to have it any time. However, I've found that if you really dig someone having sex too soon can hurt things, while waiting a bit doesn't tend to.
Let him make the move, since you feel you are ready now...he may do it on your next date or he may wait a while longer...go with the flow. ☺
2007-05-21 07:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's still waiting after a month and 5 dates, you got yourself a good one there
2007-05-21 07:51:21 · answer #7 · answered by Bent Wheel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's in your best interest to wait. I say that because in just one month, you're just now learning a person's favorite color or food. Give it time. Just don't give in and never settle. Then you and he will know if it's the right thing to do.
2007-05-21 07:49:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no this is too fast un less youve known him for along time and u just started dating him. after 5 dates. tahats too short. u should want to wait aliitle bit longer so that ur relation ships will be long
2007-05-21 07:48:28 · answer #9 · answered by hotsuya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One one hand every relationship does deserve a certain period for healing and moving on. If you feel you are ready, you're the best judge, and make sure you're doing it for all the right reasons. I don't see why you shouldn't ... and it sounds like he's a good guy.
2007-05-21 07:50:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋