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OK some women...Why do some women do that thing where they repeatedly say, "Nothing." when you ask them "What's wrong?", then get mad at you later.

2007-05-21 07:38:11 · 33 answers · asked by Yamaoha 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

33 answers

Wow theres many answers for this question. For me, I just hate repeating myself to my bf over and over so I say nothing and sometimes he's clueless of whats going and you want him to figure it out on his own. OR she could be frustrated about something whether its just her or the problem in your relationship OR it it could really mean let me be and I dont feel like talking .. there are more answers to this one...

2007-05-21 07:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 1 0

Well I used to be the woman who went "nothing" I guess in some really sad twisted way I wanted my guy to know what was wrong without having to ask me..you know like he could read my mind and be able to tell what's wrong. As I grew older and more mature I learnt that it's not always best to say "nothing" with the guy I'm presently seeing if I'm upset he'll come to me and say what's wrong and I've told him nothing like on only two occasions that I can remember and he said "Hmm" lol that's when I fessed up.
I guess sometimes too as women we try to be strong on our own not always wanting to run to the guy for help and maybe that's why some of us say nothings wrong...if you love us don't take it personal cause it's just as equally hard to get you guys to open up to us some of the times.

2007-05-21 09:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by Lucky 5 · 0 0

Some women have a hard time expressing themselves and sometimes they want to make sure the person really wants to hear there story so they kind of do the ohh nothing thing and then they kind of want you to push a little to get some info out and then they will tell you. They get mad at you later because you didnt push enough to see what is going on. yep

2007-05-21 07:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 2 0

Hi Yamaoha
Well women do this because of some good reasons.
First they are very patient and would like to wait the men to settle down.
They normally look for that time when they are sure men may be ready to listen keenly to their problem.
Some women are of high integrity and do not like rushing with issues of such impotance.

2007-05-21 07:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

I do that sometimes myself. I think we do that because at the time we don't want to really talk about it. But then we get mad if the guy doesn't press the issue and keep asking. I think that's because we want them to be mind readers or something. Who knows whenever that happens just let her know that you're gonna be there whenever she's ready to talk.

2007-05-21 08:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

because most of the time its the mens fault, so the gf doesnt want to talk to him. But then again some girls like it when men ask them over & over again, it shows the men care about them. When the guys stop asking the women get pi$$ed as hell

2007-05-21 07:43:42 · answer #6 · answered by Rissa 2 · 1 0

Because it means that they are VERY mad and are thinking of a way to word it without turning into a big fight. That's what I do.
If she said "nothing" now, it's good because you're not going to get yelled at as much...

2007-05-21 07:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by LadeeBug Buddha 3 · 2 0

when I say nothing to that question I usually just want to be left alone because I will get over it by myself and it isn't a big deal. I usually don't get mad later.

2007-05-21 07:41:34 · answer #8 · answered by miss_tiger2003 1 · 0 0

Well to tell you the truth women are not as open as guys are and sometimes they just want to think or resolve problems out them selves BUT i also think it's because they want more attention and what to feel cared for in a problem that's going on and we girls always want to feel SPECIAL.

2007-05-21 07:43:22 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica C 2 · 1 0

What we want is for you to think about what you could have done to upset us. Such a response means that you ARE the cause. The frustration stems from your inability to figure it out. Sometimes the answer is obvious but not always.

Good luck figuring it out. x

2007-05-21 07:49:22 · answer #10 · answered by kate_wizzbomb 2 · 0 0

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