A i am whoar?

Question

i have a bad reputation because of things i used to do in the past. drink,guys,and party a lot. then it got around to a lot of people, and some like me but a lot of them think im a whoar when they do the same dang thing as me!! i've quit some of it but i want to be able to be myself and have fun because thats what i do best. any advice???
*bri*

i cant spell!!
i meant to say
"am i a whore"

Answer 1

Queen wrote so appropriate. You need to be wise enough to be respected. It is easier to lose all your respect but difficult to build it.

You aren't a wh*re, don't think that way. You have your own way of life, its good as long as its sustainable.

Answer 2

If you are concerned about your reputation, ditch the party scene and be a better friend, daughter, and neighbor. Keep folks who want to pull you back into wildness at arm's length.

I don't think you're a whore, and I don't judge you for being young and having fun... but the only way you'll shed the party girl image is by leaving the parties behind and finding something more fulfilling and wholesome.

You can be at a party and not be thought of as a whore. But if you drink and do immature things, or act out sexually, there will be talk. And, that's not a good pattern to be in.

Good luck with whatever you choose... make sure you make choices you can be proud of.

Answer 3

Well only you know if your a whore or not. I don't know why you would be like that though unless your really stupid or have very low self-esteem. Guys don't love you because you have sex with them they are just using you and you are letting yourself get disrespected. You are also opening yourself, literally to a lot of diseases and others as well. One day, your partying is going to stop and not because you choose too but because you'll catch something serious. Also have you heard of all the things that can happen to you because you have to many partners? Let me just fill you in on a little secret....GIRLS deal with all the problems of having multiple sex partners....guys don't have that much to worry about. They don't get pregnant, cervical dysplasia, and not to mention used down there. Think about your actions it's not worth it for a few seconds of fun.

Answer 4

you don't have a problem. do what some of your friends say,have fun and do your thing.
half the world loves you the way you are,and who cares what the other half thinks.
just hang around with other whores and keep partying,and when you're thirty, you'll look like you're sixty. have a blast. but ,don't forget, once you get there you can't come back.

Answer 5

Yes, you are a whore. A whole lot of whore. A whore like no other. A Whore of Whores. A whore who snores, You are a whore. And a whore is a horrible thing, especially if you know it.

Know it.

Answer 6

Wow, people like to judge don't they?? And to use God's name when they do it is a sin. Do what makes you happy. Use your condoms. And say FUC* you to anyone who wishes to judge you. If a guy calls you a whore for screwing him, then he's one too. If you don't feel you are one then you aren't.

Answer 7

Just be yourself because life is short. Live your life with no regrets. Just party and have fun cause your only young once.

Answer 8

that does not make you a whoar girl calm down next time someone calls you that know him or her the fu** out

Answer 9

Do your thing girl... dont worry about what they say.

And the word is whore, not whoar.

But yeah, do your thing. Just make the guys use protection... because fun is fun... but done is done.

Answer 10

You can't change other people. You can only find people who like you the way you are.

Find some other friends who are not as judgemental as your present friends are.