What are your biggest wedding fears?
I fear about my dress not looking good the day of the wedding, things not going right, etc....
What are things you've feared going wrong with your wedding?
2007-05-21 05:05:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
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So... my thing was being judged about not starting on time. We were only 3 minutes late and that is because my bridesmaids didn't listen the first 2 times I told them to get out there! It took a long time between the time the wedding march started and the time the doors opened with my Dad and I standing there because one of my friends I hadn't seen in 4 years was out there and I got a little distracted! (LOL) My husband told me it made him a little nervous and the crowd buzzed a little, too. ;-D
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2007-05-21 13:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by Sleek 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The thing I feared going wrong at my wedding was my father-in-law making a huge scene. Sure enough he did it, but not at my wedding... in our new home on our wedding night!! He and my husband's mom are separated (have been for 6 years now). He assumed we wouldnt be home on our wedding night (we didnt plan on going to a hotel until the next night for the entire weekend, we got married on a friday) so he took his "girlfriend" and some other people to our house. Long story short, I had to drive my 11 year old new brother-in-law 1 hr to his mom's house on MY wedding night because his dad was to drunk and knocked out to take care of him and the kid would not stop crying. There went my wedding night.
2007-05-21 12:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by MariChelita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have any fears, however, I do worry that I will not find a decent enough caterer that will give a decent price. I plan to invite 350 people. I am not willing to take out a mortgage for this wedding. I'd marry my baby at the hall of justice if need be. LOL!
2007-05-21 12:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by China Doll 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My fears were mostly centered around the actions of the "maid of honor" who clearly didn't want my wife to marry. She was a big enough jerk during the planning stage (constantly trying to delay getting anything done) that I expected some sort of public spectacle during the ceremony. I was absolutely amazed when she showed up at the ceremony on time.
You should see her ugly frowning face in my wedding pictures! She looks like she's at a funeral.
My wife now sees it for what it was. They are no longer friends.
2007-05-21 12:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by Automation Wizard 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Before I got married I was so afraid about how everything would actually come together, like the vendors showing up on time, the limo doing exactly what I wanted etc. How everything would work out to actually make a wedding.
It all disappeared when I woke up that morning though, hopefully it will for you too!
Best of luck!
2007-05-21 12:10:46 · answer #5 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wedding and reception took place at my in-laws large home. I was afraid the TV would be put on, and everyone would be watching TV and not mingling at the reception. It didn't happen! The TV did go on, but it only helped keep the kids from running around like maniacs. At least not as wild maniacs as they could have. And I was afraid my brother-in-law would put in his crazy political tapes. That didn't happen because he avoided everyone by camping out in the laundry room. Everyone else mingled plenty and it was fine.
2007-05-21 12:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by danashelchan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The groom not showing up or my dress slipping down..( I want a strap-less dress when I get married. Oh....another fear is my family fighting through the whole thing.
2007-05-21 12:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that I might beat the ever living **** out of my mother in law at the reception. Hmmmm, no real fears I'm a little hesitant about lighting the unity candle in fear I will light myself or the church on fire and not having enough time to actually have fun at my reception.
2007-05-21 12:30:35 · answer #8 · answered by Jersey Style 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding out your groom cyber-cheated on you 3 times during the engagement.
It just happened to me. I had to call everything off now.
The wedding is in a month.
2007-05-21 13:40:46 · answer #9 · answered by suitemadameblue66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married by a Catholic priest and I was so worried about what he would say for the homily. I'd heard horror stories about priests going off about gay marriage in the middle of other people's weddings. But ours was fantastic, and while I was pretty bored, it went well and was short.
2007-05-21 13:05:05 · answer #10 · answered by Meiran C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋