what are the chances (guys only)?

Question

my boyfriend is going to his beach house (without me)
on june 24th. he'll be gone for a week and im really afraid he'll meet some beautiful, tan blonde and fall madly in love with her. so, basically im worried some babe will sweep him off his feet and he'll forget he has me back at home. what are the chances of that happening? would you cheat on your girlfriend of 10 months while on vacation?

Answer 1

I doubt the chances are great that someone will "sweep him off his feet" in a one week time period. But, that doesn't mean he's not going to get tempted. You know your boyfriend. Is he a partier? Will he be drinking? If he's drinking, partying, having a typical fun time at the beach, then there's always a chance something bad will happen. No matter what reportedly virtuous men might say, most are tortured by natural desires that are not easily brushed aside. When sober, and in a sane frame of mind, most men can put these desires in their proper place and maintain a committed relationship. But, and this is a big but, we need to avoid precarious situations at all cost.

Answer 2

"what are the chances of that happening?"
"would you cheat on your girlfriend of 10 months while on vacation?"
1. The chances are equal to those you being run over by a car. It may happen within the next 5 minutes or it may never happen.
2. No, I would not, but what is the relevance of that? I am not your boy friend.
Now I have 2 questions for you, too.
1. What kind of man have you fallen in love with?
2. What kind of girl are you? You're too unsure of yourself (and of your boyfriend). Love means trust, so trust him until proven guilty! Don't poison yourself with bitter, unnecessary jealousy. First trust yourself for being smart, beautiful, witty and the rest of the world will see you the same way. OK?
Best of luck!

Answer 3

I don't have anything specific but I always have music I like because I built it up. I started going to the libaray & getting what I thought might be good music. I would listen to it each morning when I cleaned house, exercised or meditated. I wrote down the name of the CD & if I loved it, hated it or liked certain songs. I keep a list of some cds are just ones I had to have. So I suggest you build up what you like. I was surprised that I liked certain things such as John Denver music. I never really listened to it when I was younger. It is beautiful. I found a cd that actually balances your chakras. Olivia Newton-John Grace & Graditude Renewed....I didn't like it so much at first but I listened to it while riding my stationary bike & found I felt great afterwards then I read an amazon review & saw they songs were working on the chakras.

Answer 4

I wouldn't worry about someone sweeping him off his feet and him falling madly in love with them.

Mid 20's are a tough time to stay committed. (for some men). Nothing will probably happen. Just think if he does cheat on you, is he really going to tell you? Probably not and then you'll never know. Everything stays perfect.

Relax or he'll start thinking your crazy. (your questions is right on the borderline of being crazy)

Answer 5

I wouldnt cheat on my girlfriend even if I was to be killed. But that is just me if he is a really nice guy then he will not forget about his girl back home but if he is the guy who likes to check out women be prepared to find out he most likely forgot he had you and he will have another girl to smooch around with but more than likely he will not talk about girls while on vacation so remember this. Or you can always try to make him take you with him while hes going on vacation and if he doesnt want to take you then more than likely he will find another girl. Also not a good idea because mostly now some men will try to hit on you in their answers.

Answer 6

If he is your boy friend and he asked you to be his babee and you said yes or vice versa, you don't have to worry about a thing, you have to have confidence in yourself and why is he going alone? not enough money for two? Just let him know you love him, kiss him and have sex with him 1 day or 2 days before he leaves and make it sweet and special, make sure he doesn't lack anything and remember be confidence and boost your respect for yourself and for him. Help him know what he has and pls don't over do it. Good luck

Answer 7

The fact that you don't trust him underlies some other facts about your relationship. Either he's untrustworthy to begin with, you have a low self esteem, or y'all are not that serious. Maybe you should explore the answers to these questions.

Answer 8

There seems to be a reason that you arn't secure in your relationship. If there are tell tale signs that he is unhappy in yalls relationship then you might need to be worried. If you trust him and your both happy then I wouldn't worry about it. And don't nag him about who what when and where. If you come off to him as if you beleive he is going to cheat then you might well be pushing him away and making him look for other options.

Answer 9

i wouldnt do that to anyone, but make sure before he leaves you have a really good date or something and be very careful not to get him upset, cause alot of times people will cheat on somone if you get in a big fight and its not resolved, so just have a good time before he leaves and tell him you love him and to call you when he has the chance!

Answer 10

I wouldn't, but that depends on the person. If he does cheat on you, or fall in love with another girl, at least you'll have someone out of your life who doesn't deserve you. Right?