2007-05-21 03:59:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
communication is important let him know that you want to be satisfied too, which should be a given and he should do what it takes to make sure you are satisfied...if not you should be with someone else anyway...whatever you do DONT ever fake it. thats the biggest mistake a girl can make im personally not nice enough to fake it lol if they aint doing it for me i want them to know it but anyway best of luck and dont forget communication is key :)
2007-05-21 04:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys need to talk! That is nonsense. Doesn't he care? I would assume you getting off is as important to him as him getting off, so you are going to have to take top sometimes, take more control in the bedroom and tell him to slow the hell down. Simple as that. Be direct and ask for what you need. Guys need things told to them clearly and with no room for misinterpretation. Hints and subtleness are not effective. Sex is for both of you to enjoy. Be assertive and get your needs met. If you are faking, cut it out.
2007-05-21 04:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mmmm the best way to tell him something about that is like when you both are just having a normal conversation bring it up how you would like to try diffrent things when you both are intimate or how you would like for him to be slower so that you both can have more fun not just him!
2007-05-21 04:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by only me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmm explain to him that its not good for you...i had the same problem! guys for some reason (including me previously) think the harder, faster they go the better it is. It was somewhat ingrained in me but a little communication and teaching will do the trick.
ps. it may be useful to fake one really good when he is going slow that way he will see the effects!
2007-05-21 04:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by ShitImCurious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him ( Masterbation and then let him try) , guide him and tell him to slow down. Also, You need to care about your own needs too. So be upfront and let him know. Play games with each other as well.
2007-05-21 04:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by Ginger G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mix up your positions. dont stay in the one position that he gets off on too long. try different positions and different speeds.
for me, being on top is the key. i alternate between grinding and up and down. that way i dont get tired and he doesnt
c u m too fast either. good luck!
2007-05-21 04:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by million$? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your man needs to spend more time on foreplay! That way when you are sufficiently aroused, you will both climax at the same time.
2007-05-21 04:05:18 · answer #7 · answered by AFRET73 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BJ or hand job first, then the second time he will last a lot longer. ALSO even if he is done he still needs to pleasure you with his hands or mouth! COMMUNICATION
2007-05-21 04:02:31 · answer #8 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty, be honest with him... Talk to him.. Tell him how you feel.. It's not all about him.. If he loves you he will listen and realize your feelings.. He should want to make you feel good too.. He may not even be aware of this..
2007-05-21 04:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by jpic8844 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you like foreplay alot... to take his time and pay special attention to your body... talk to him what you want him to do. Talk to him while your havin sex. Tell him what is and what is not working
2007-05-21 04:03:52 · answer #10 · answered by GA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋