I don't dress or talk dirty but I hope to have guys just as friends and when I tell them this they all runaway why? I am 5'7 38C 25 36..and I like F-22 all military fighter jets/NBA/F1 and soccer!
2007-05-21 03:30:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl.. I know what you mean... ! well I just find the nice guys.. not the HOT guys and not the cocky guys.. just the nice boys..some are hot.. lol , but they dont think so. Look for the nice guy =]
2007-05-21 03:39:34 · answer #1 · answered by angelicsnowbabii 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very difficult for men and women to be "just friends", mainly because men basically want to have sex with every single attractive woman on the planet. If you are an attractive woman and have male friends, I would put money on it that 90% of them want to have sex with you. There are such things genuine friendships, but this is generally how men are.
I may risk looking like a jerk to a lot of women, but here is the honest truth. If a man is single and has a few female friends, take a look at all of them and see if any are unattractive. Chances are that none of them are, and that is because men will usually only associate themselves with women that they find attractive. This doesn't mean that every guy keeps a slew of women as "friends" just so that he has a chance of getting laid down the road, but for the most part, if given the chance he would have sex with any one of those women.
If you are noticing guys running away when you drop the F-bomb, don't be too surprised. This just shows their motives and actually benefits you because you cut them off early.
2007-05-21 03:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by Brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys typically aren't friends with women. When women have male friends, the reason those guys hang around is because they want to have sex with that woman, and they hope that by hanging out with them, they will eventually get an opportunity. They're waiting for her to have a fight with her boyfriend or some other problem, so they can move on in to provide some sexual healing. That's just how it works.
When you tell a guy that there is no chance that you will ever have sex with them, they have no reason to be your friend. They already have guy friends, why would they want to hang out with you and talk about stuff they don't care about? That's why they run.
Are you just learning this for the first time? Your best bet is to have female friends, and only hang out with guys that turn you on and want to have sex with.
2007-05-21 03:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by eviltruitt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a woman, presumably attractive. Men and women aren't easily friends. Just remember that the first thing in a man's mind is "gosh, I'd like to have sex with that."
2007-05-21 03:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by bunchwacky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy knows right out that he is interested and has no chance cause is just friends that is usually what ruins any chance of a relationship cause guys uaually like to know that maybe there is some small chance we might score...
2007-05-21 03:42:28 · answer #5 · answered by wsterling30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply put: you are probably trying to be friends with the wrong guys.
That said, why are you trying specifically to be "just friends" with guys in the first place? If guys are attracted to you, being a woman, it is natural that they would react this way. If you are that desperate to be friends with guys, you might consider gay guys. That won't attracted to you. Problem solved. Either that, or try being friends with girls instead. Good luck!
2007-05-21 03:34:12 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That one is easy men think with their bottom head this is the way it goes you are talkin but they ain't listenin they are busy sizin you up...men always want sex you don't have to be a dirty talker sex is constantly in both of their brains...I've always said if you crack open a mans head there would be p*ssy everywhere...lol.....=P
2007-05-21 03:38:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you got it going on dont let any of those sorry guys trick you to do anything you dont want to ,you control what goes on in your life and with your body,if they cant accept you for that then they arnt worth having as a friend.
2007-05-21 03:34:29 · answer #8 · answered by carin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they want just sex, then what's wrong with them running away? You'll meet a guy who's not about sex. You just gotta wait for him.
2007-05-21 03:32:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
men are like that its hard to find a guy who really wants to be your friend and when you acctually find that person you end up liking him. thats if he is your type. but thats mostaly every mens nature
2007-05-21 03:34:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋