ok, She goes off on a trip to visit a friend. Her friends friend a man is organizing her a place to stay. She talks again about he is her friends friend. Then I have to drive all night to go pick her up because things have gone sour between her and the guy who she rented the place from. While I was on the phone she said 'thats it I am never meeting anybody from myspace again' meaning she met him on myspace. She was talking passionately and made a slip up revealing that.. Now when I arrive after driving forever, she is very affectionate and is now punting the story that he was her girl pals friend. I did not call her up on her little slip up about myspace.
So its her friends friend, then she met him on myspace, then back to her friends friend.
Does this sound suspicious?
2007-05-21 03:08:46 · 18 answers · asked by john g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who cares?
2007-05-21 03:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by SvetlanaFunGirl 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes it does sound suspitious! She obviously met this guy on myspace, started getting to know him, liked him and wanted to see if the grass was greener on the other side! Then she realised that it was a big mistake cause he wasnt who she thought he was and is now settling to being in a relationship with you again! The thing is that there is obviously a problem in ur relationship or else she wouldnt have looked! I rate talk to her about it and find out what is going on and dont let her lie to you! Then take it from there but u need to be ready for a hard truth! Sorry
2007-05-21 03:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by Stacey-Lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. Call her on the comment she made. I am sorry to say that from what you said that she was having a fling with the man and that there was no friend involved. She wanted to keep you hanging in case it did not work out. When it didn't then she called on old reliable you. Like I said talk to her about it and then go from there. Then decide if you want to accept her answers and stay with her then stay. My guess is though that it may happen again...not knowing the girl I can not really say for sure. If you just ignore what she said and let it slide then she will more than likely repeat this behavior knowing that you will be there for her when it does not work. At least if you talk to her maybe she will be truthful with you and then you can decide if you want to end your relationship with her and have a clear conscious.
2007-05-21 03:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by susie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. It does.
I think, given that long car ride, that you should have earned a long talk where she explains exactly what this was about. Since you already suspect she's cheated, try to take it easy on her, but be clear that you need her to tell you the truth. Tell her that this is her "Olly Olly Oxen Free" to tell you what's going on, but that if she lies once, the relationship is over.
I'm thinking that if you heard she'd cheated and then lied (and made you chaffeur her back) you'd probably end things anyways, but at least this way you'll get the closure of knowing, from her mouth, that it did happen, instead of it being this nagging phantom that messes up every good moment you could have with her going forward.
2007-05-21 03:16:26 · answer #4 · answered by Christopher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound suspicious. During my dating years I discovered that it is not uncommon for a woman to keep a "man in the hole," so to say, until something better comes along. I think she's shopping, but until she finds what she wants, you can pick up the tab.
I wouldn't confront her right away. She'll only deny it and then turn the tables on you by trying to make you feel guilty for being suspicious, or put you on the defense by denouncing you as possessive and controlling. (These are two common self-defense techniques used by women caught in the act.)
Keep an eye on the exit, bro. Sometimes the only satisfaction a man can get is to drop her before she drops you.
2007-05-21 03:23:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmm, HELL YEAH! Now the next step is up to you do you really want to know the truth , which will probably cause you to break up, or would you rather stay with her and ignore what may have happened. Good Luck.
2007-05-21 03:13:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always listen to that little voice inside that tells you what it going on. If deep down it seems suspicious, then you already know the answer to your question.
2007-05-21 03:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by otter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take caution with this one... Call her out on the slip up, and let her know ur concerned... Communication is the key
2007-05-21 03:13:20 · answer #8 · answered by Megan N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are now a has been. she is looking elsewhere bud, your time is over.,
get out of this one lickety split......
no explanation should be needed.... I dont want to hear her story, or her tears or her upsets... she is out there trying to replace you , but when that goes bad, she will run back to you.
You are the alternate bud.......face the facts....
Get rid of her.....she is already looking for your replacement....
2007-05-21 03:16:45 · answer #9 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she said it ...i am never meeting anybody again....she probably did do something with him...but if u like them a little used thats ur thing
2007-05-21 03:14:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, she obviously forgot what she told you in the beginning.....but she's lying for some reason, and it's best to know now instead of later........good luck with this
2007-05-21 03:12:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋