there is this guy i really like but i feel as though hes way out of the ball park for me i feel as though i wouldnt be good enough for him i know i shouldnt but i do im really insecure he goes to my church and all and were friends but i like him for more than a friend help me please
2007-05-21 03:07:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
know that NO ONE is beyond your league ---- if he gets to know you and likes you then go for it ---- if he does not like you then accept it and move on ---- he does not think you are out of his league as you are already friends ---- best wishes
2007-05-21 03:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's a simple yes. go for it! if you love each other don't let anything hold you back, love isn't about looks, it's about the way two people feel about each other, and as long as you love him and he loves you, then don't let anything stop you, and take the oppurtunity and enjoy it while it lasts, what do ya know?you might end up soul mates and have a great future together, and you might be regretting things later if you don't go out with him. Good Luck! I hope everything goes well and that you make the right choice. :)
2016-04-01 00:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel insecure about him being out of your league, then he probably is. We all have insecure feelings. He has them too. But our own worse enemy is ourselves and what we decide to allow into our sub-conscience.
I read a book 32 years ago (yes, I'm an old codger) that changed my life with one sentence. it was...
"If you want something loving and good in your life, imagine it already there and it will find you." Illusions, Richard bach.
In other words, first deal with why you think he is too good for you. Because if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will. Once you have that part of it sold, then move to others.
From your post you are not ready for any relationship now. Not with this boy, and certainly not with someone you feel you are worthy of.
2007-05-21 03:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by hexeliebe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Learn to love and respect yourself and make sure that others do the same. Act/pretend that you are confident and do what a confident person would do and then before you know it you will be that confident person that you were pretending to be. Confidence is a very attractive quality.
2007-05-21 03:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Ed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you say that? He's too handsome? You are a woman; no man is out of your reach unless you choose to let him be. Men are putty in our hands; if you want him enough, he's yours.
2007-05-21 03:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by SvetlanaFunGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try it, if you never try you will keep wondering if you ever had a chance.
2007-05-21 03:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt!
2007-05-21 03:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋