ok, here it goes.I just turned 27. My mom and dad got divorced a couple years ago. My dad re-married a year ago and I was introduce to 3 new step sisters. I get along best with the middle one, she is seven years younger then me. We hit it off as good friends but In the past few months she has made it pretty obvious (without outright saying it) that she likes me. the weirdest part is that I think my step mom really wants us to get together. I have always thought she was attractive, but I dismissed the idea b/c I thought it would just lead to awkwardness in the future.That and I am an attractive guy who has been in respectful relationships over the past seven years and find the fact that I would even consider getting with my step sister strange.But the more I am around her and the more I htink about it, I really do think we are a good match. I don't know if I could ever date her, but there is a deifnate sexual tension between us. Am I crazy?. What should I do?
2007-05-21 03:04:25 · 16 answers · asked by EaglesFan69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess that would be between the two of you. She is not biologically related so there is no issue there really. Just because you think your stepmother would like to see you with her daughter don't go by that. Follow your heart. I do agree with you thought that it could cause problems in the future should things go bad between you and this girl. For that matter should your parents split up it could affect your relationship as well. Weigh out all the good feelings you have about a relationship with her and all the negative ones as well. Then as I said follow your heart.
2007-05-21 03:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by susie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they don't seem to be an analogous. A step sister is a sister via marriage. that's her dad or mum married your dad or mum, so she isn't a sister via blood. A 0.5 sister has a dad or mum in undemanding with you yet not the two mum and dad as which would be an entire sister. just to end the checklist, a sister-in-regulation is a woman married on your brother, a new child sister is often your youthful sister. wish this clears all of it up for you.
2016-10-05 11:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by lieser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, I think it is only fair if you talk this straight to your step- sister about your feelings and at the same time, know how she felt too. Bcos this may be a one- sided love...
If she feels the same way, i suggest you dont date her straight away, cos it will create alot of misunderstandings not only with your step- mom, but also your other step- sis and your dad. So, being open to your parents might not be a welcoming idea, but it is better than your family's feeling of being decieved.
Personally, you aren't crazy... I have a 'crazier' friend who actually fall in luv with HIS brother. Well, who needs psychologists if love can be explained simply?
2007-05-21 03:22:26 · answer #3 · answered by clis_hi85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends do both of you just want this to be a hook up or an actual relationship? what would it be like if it did not work out. i think it is a bad idea because it could lead to a lot awkwardness in the future whether it was just a hookup or a relationship. i am all for buddies with benefits but i just think that this could get really weird!
2007-05-21 03:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by brittevans13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! It's not like the two of you grew up in the same house as sibilings. You're not blood related and your parents have only been married for a year. It would be different if you guys were raised together as brother and sister. But you were both adults when your parents married so I think it's ok.
2007-05-21 03:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by Lil Mama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beware! We are having problems with step-sisters and step-brothers right now and it is not a pretty picture. They are trying to ruin our lives and take what was in our family for years just because our mother married their father. Look in the future and what the possible consequences could be for anything more than a friendship.
2007-05-21 03:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by Bud B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. If you have the mother's blessing, get your dad'd blessing too, naturally, with her present. Ya'll need to stress that no matter what happens, you both stay committed to keeping your parents out of it-- for her, that means no crying on mom's shoulder, and for you, that means no complaining to dad about her.
Going forward, you can NOT cheat on this girl. That can't happen under any circumstances where you then get to join the family for Thanksgiving and Christmas. No matter what-- no scenario that has you with another woman will be appropriate.
If you can handle all that, mazel tov!
2007-05-21 03:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by Christopher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro step sisters who dont share your blood are not your sisters, see if you shared either parent then DONT!! lol, you can marry them in all religions if you guys dont share any parents by blood meaning if your dad had her from another lady or your mom had her from another man so go ahead and I wish you all the luck :)
2007-05-21 03:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by shorty_the_wise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know...if things go wrong it may just cause an awful lot of weirdness at family event but if things stay good then you might be missing out. It is a strange situation....
2007-05-21 03:08:00 · answer #9 · answered by pancake on my face 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is against the law in some states to be with your stepsister. Plus, if you hook up with her and then decide that you aren't feeling her, you will make the situation even more awkward then it already is. So my verdict is nope, don't do it.
2007-05-21 03:08:19 · answer #10 · answered by cinnatigg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋