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yesterday he went down , then tried to rape,
then i punched him in his face,
and he got mad,
and he said i have put my self in danger
and i really worried he is gonna send people to beat me up,
should i tell the police

2007-05-21 02:40:34 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

cos he made it seem like i should have done it,
that i done totally the wrong thing,
but i was defending my self

2007-05-21 02:46:02 · update #1

and his mouth was bleeding,

2007-05-21 02:46:39 · update #2

if i tell the police, i will get my face smashed in by his people

2007-05-21 02:49:23 · update #3

46 answers

You should have killed him - but anyway - go to the police immediately!
You do not want to find out what he will or will not do in the future.
He tried to rape you. He belongs in jail.
or dead.

2007-05-21 02:44:23 · answer #1 · answered by Bo 2 · 3 0

i am assuming that after you punched him he didnt continue what he was trying to do. iam also assuming that you first told him to stop or said NO to what he was doing before you punched him.

if the word STOP or NO does not control the situation i would say all bets are off. A woman in this situation will decide in a matter of seconds if she should fight off her attacker or be submissive if she fears for her life. i dont think there is a right or wrong answer b/c it depends on the situation and the amount of danger you feel in reacting to it.

now for the aftermath. you should at least consult a police officer to get some legal advise. this situation might be concidered an assult, attempted rape, or something else. The least you should do is tell someone else, so if anything does happen someone else knows what is going on.

2007-05-21 04:51:15 · answer #2 · answered by mimi 3 · 0 0

Police can't do anything about a threat, but you sure can. Go have someone show you how to take a man down, you NEED to learn self defense, now more than ever. Don't wait, do it today. Tell your family and frioend too, especially male relatives who can help defend you. But most important is you getting the skills. Next time you will need to do more that punch in the face.

2007-05-21 02:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by SALSA 6 · 2 0

yes! call the police and explain everything that happened, including punching him. you were acting in self defense. make sure to tell them that he threatened you as well. write it all down before you call them, so that you tell them everything that happened. the chances are that you made him feel like a total loser (and quite rightly too!) so he threatened you just to save some face. but i would definately go to the police, rape is a very serious offense. and if he tries it again, don't go for the face, give his d*ck or balls a good twist! he will find that very difficult to explain to the police, lol...

2007-05-21 02:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by ktulu_has_awoken 2 · 0 0

For one, yes you should tell the police he tried to rape you. And he deserved to be punched in the face. You shouldn't have even asked the question, its common sense. He would have raped you otherwise. But, if he went down as in downtown on you, why would he try to rape you? I think there is more to the story than what you are saying, but you still have every right to protect yourself from rape.

2007-05-21 02:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by cinnatigg 4 · 1 0

Ye! Tell the police! If a guy tries to rape, don't just punch him, whack him over the head with a lampshade! I heard it's ok to do that as long as it's in Self Defence.

2007-05-21 06:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Oh honey, of course you should. Would have done so right after I punched him. It is never wrong to defend yourself from rape. What exactly do you mean by "yesterday he went down"? Is this someone you were having sex with, then changed your mind? I'm a bit confused.

2007-05-21 02:46:25 · answer #7 · answered by g_davis58 2 · 1 0

I'm glad u punched him when you say no it means NO. I'd call the police girl its not good for you to be afraid of protecting yourself, u did a good enough job so don't let him get you down if he threatening you tell the police everything and i mean everything.
i would have ripped him to shreds if any guy had tried that with me they'd be more worried of wot I'd do to them bcoz of the fact that they even thought it!!!!
don't ever let any man or woman for that fact intimidate you or scare you i know it ain't easy but don't let them see that they do it gives them more fire to go on. good luck hun and take care. God Bless

2007-05-21 02:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by babzie 1 · 0 0

Some guys have no understanding of the word NO.
NO means NO.

So what if his mad, he trying to intimidate you.
Report this ammediately to the police,
Never show that you are afraid or intimidated.
Go and take up self defence classes in your area.
Stay at family and friends if you really need to.
If he does intimidate you again threat him with an AVO
and explain that you dont want an take an AVO on him but he comes near you again you will take an AVO out on him .
Tell him it effect your future employment, its recorded in court system. and that you go to his place of work and let his employer. (He will stop).

Hope it works out for you.

.

2007-05-21 03:03:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yes it is more than ok. He propbably should have got more than a punch in the face. If you are scared that he might send people to beat you up than you shouldn't even ask if you need to go to the police...you should just go.

2007-05-21 02:50:13 · answer #10 · answered by Angelic Rose 1 · 2 0

Absolutely punch him in the face, and kick him in the nuts, so raping is the last thing on his mind. CALL police

2007-05-21 02:45:25 · answer #11 · answered by maplewoodjoe 4 · 1 0

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