tell him 10 will get him 20 if you know what I mean
2007-05-21 02:42:21
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answer #1
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answered by John L 5
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A lot of men just don't know these things until you guide them.
Why not initiate some new sex play?
Tell him what you want to try even if its a minute before you try it if it involves him doing something and if it involves you doing something different, then don't say a thing and just do it.
And share your fantasies with him (don't make them hardcore like swapping, but small things he could do)
How about telling him you would like to try a different type of orgasm, and ask him to finger you, etc. And at first don't eliminate the usual sex routine, try it at different times from your usual routine. Throw some other stuff in there like giving him a little oral.
I would also become more aquainted with your own body. If you can achieve orgasm by yourself, it will probably happen faster when you are with him as well. I know it takes more than 2 minutes, but it will also make you more in tune with what your body responds to and a lot of gals skip that, or its another thing, just like guys thinking sex is 2 minutes long, that lots of gals never "got the memo" on.
2007-05-21 02:51:02
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answered by JustMe 4
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Either you get the guts to tell him or you short change him like he does you. But men are simple creatures. Unless you tell them, they will not know. Most guys (notice the most part) don't get offended when a female tells them what they want. So either go for the gold, or take the other way out.
2007-05-21 02:42:29
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answered by cinnatigg 4
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If you feel a little uncomfortable speaking about it next time you get it on and your bf starts working on you tell him how good it feels, a little "mmmm that feels good" will drive him crazy and will hopefully encourage him to contniue. You could also try guiding his hand to your hotspots or telling him how good it would feel if he .......... (enter your own turn on here) while he .............. (enter your other turn on here). There's lots of ways you can get the message accross huni. Another way around it may be to work on youreself and let him watch, this drives my man wild but also leaves him knowing exactly what to do next time.
Good luck and have fun
2007-05-21 02:48:34
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answered by Anonymous
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You should suck it up and tell him because if you marry him later on in life it'll be the same old boring things and you'll hate having sex with him eventually and you'll begin to feel empty because of the lack of intimacy you are getting. Just talk about it OR........ you could always say oh no please don't stop I like that so much. or whatever you get what i'm saying don't ya?
2007-05-21 02:43:59
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answer #5
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answered by Anonymous
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Is he stopping or does he finish?
The best thing to do is tell him what you want during the act, not at an inappropriate time or while he's watching t.v.
just say do this or do that or touch me here or there...talk during the act and it will be the best you ever had...
2007-05-21 02:46:09
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answered by Peter M 2
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obviosly you dont want to hurt his ego, but at same time you dont want to continue being this way. The truth will set you free. Just let him know because who knows, this 2 minutes problem might be a probelm he's suffering but is to macho to admit it. Best of luck to you.
2007-05-21 02:45:07
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answer #7
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answered by Elias 2
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you have to tell him or else he won't know
or u could try some payback and not pleasure him as much as he would like
then maybe he'll get the message
2007-05-21 02:43:15
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answer #8
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answered by wyatt 1
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Tell him. Its the only way, Or give him hints like "dont stop"
2007-05-21 02:42:22
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answered by Olivia C 1
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THE ONLY WAY HE IS GOING TO KNOW IS IF YOU TELL HIM OR TELL HIM YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED THE NEXT TIME AND THEN TELL HIM IT IS THE ONLY WAY HE CAN KNOW IS IF YOU LET HIM KNOW IF YOU DONT WANT TO THEN GO FIND THE GOOD STUFF
2007-05-21 02:44:13
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answered by rclifton70 2
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