My fiance and I have been together for 4 years and engaged for 2 years and I am also 37 weeks pregnant with his child. We were set to get married this past weekend but when I got to the courthouse to get a copy of my divorce papers( I had to have these to get a marriage licence) the courthouse was closing early for a Geranium Festival. WTF!!! That never happens and no one told me it was happeneing. I know I probably should hav gotten the papers earlier and not the weekend of the wedding. So we didn't get to get married, there was no way around it without the marriage licence.
2007-05-21 02:37:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
question is should I consider this a sign that it wasn't meant to be ?
2007-05-21 02:41:45 · update #1
actually everything was set, all i had to do is get the papers and the marriage licence. i just didn't have time to get off work to drive to get them until the day b4.
2007-05-21 02:45:58 · update #2
I am already divorced, I just had to have the papers
2007-05-21 02:47:22 · update #3
Oh, I don't think it is a sign. It is more of a story to tell your grandchildren. Right now it might seem like a big deal but in the future I think you will laugh. My Grandparents had a similar problem getting married in the 1940's. Their problem was that the lady didn't think she was old enough to get married and called her roommate, who thought it was some kind of joke and told the lady she was only 14. So she gave her the papers and purposefully didn't sign them. So when they finally found a preacher it was 8:00 at night. They realized they weren't signed. So they actually went to the lady's house, who was drunk and hitting on my grandpa the entire time she was signing the papers. ( They had gotten engaged the day before) I guess they didn't have long engagements back then.
Geranium Festival lol I hope you order a special case of Geraniums just for the wedding. I think it is your flower now
2007-05-21 03:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by Peggy Pirate 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's just a sign that you're not very organized! Getting divorce papers, is something you should have done way in advance...and you didn't know the courthouse would be closed? This was your wedding day! What did you and your man do? Say, "Hey, I feel like getting married today, let's go to the courthouse"? Plan better!
2007-05-21 02:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts at all, it's not meant to be. Getting married is supposed to be the easiest decision you make because you know for sure that person is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. I think that you should sit down and really think about whether that's the man for you, or if you're marrying him because you've been together for a while, you're pregnant, and you care about him. If you decide that he's the one and you really love him, don't let a stupid Geranium Festival stop you. If you decide you're unsure, just wait it out until you are sure. Good luck!
2007-05-21 02:49:49 · answer #3 · answered by Renee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WOW - well if you think that is a "sign" then your probably not ready for committment or your just getting cold feet - or your looking for any excuse to get out of getting married - personally no I wouldnt have t aken it as a sign but then we have to have everything organised at least a month before the wedding here in Australia you cant just turn up and get married - get the forms you need and think about what you want to do before booking a day again.
2007-05-21 02:43:13 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Kazz♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They maximum in lots of circumstances marry Taurus, Cancers, Pisces and scorpio which become very useful, nicely most of the time. With aquarius the divorce cost is somewhat severe. i've got considered this on many events. With Gemini the potential for a happy marriage is somewhat low, even if couples in this union do have a tendency to stick it out and particularly it particularly is normally the gemini guy who tries to maintain issues going. desire this helps.
2016-12-11 15:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by rushford 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you're LOOKING for a sign that you shouldn't get married is a sign that you shouldn't get married. Real life and real marriages don't work or not work because of "signs," they work because both people make an effort everyday to MAKE them work. If an unfortunately timed GERANIUM FESTIVAL is making you question whether you should marry him, then you definitely shouldn't marry him.
2007-05-21 03:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by greeneyes_bjb 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your looking for signs that you shouldn't get married, it's only because you have your own doubts to work out. No one is sending you a sign except your own mind.
2007-05-21 02:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by JB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really wanted to get married to this guy then i think you would have gotten your papers earlier... Not wait till the last minute!
Is there another underlying issue?
2007-05-21 03:48:10 · answer #8 · answered by Her 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think thats a sign not to get married.. thats just a coincedence.. Dont think too hard into the situation!! You'll be ok! Go now and get your paperwork and marry him now! :D
2007-05-21 02:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by 04/12/2008 :) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think that was a sign that you shouldn't get married, maybe you were just looking for an excuse not to. Don't do it.
2007-05-21 02:42:12 · answer #10 · answered by groki68 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋