Last month, a guy gave his number to me and wanted to go out on a date. I told him that I was very busy and I didn’t know when I would be able to call. During that time, I was moving into an apartment, preparing for my final exams, registering for classes for this semester, and figuring out how to pay my bills … so I wasn’t lying when I said I was very busy.
Anyway, it’s been a month since he gave me his number the second time. Now, I see him often where I work and he will glance at me but will not speak. My friend believes that we should go out but he can we get to know each other if he won’t speak to me. It’s not my fault that we met at a bad time … right?
Plus, there’s a huge age gap, he’s 45 years old and I’m 22. That doesn't matter to me, but we've only spoken twice and I want to know him better before going anywhere with him.
Should I call now that I'm settled?
2007-05-21 02:33:29 · 12 answers · asked by rosie768 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would definatly be held back by the age difference. If a 45 yr. old woman asked me to go out and gave me her number, well I think she would be wasting her time.
Look your in college now! Live it up! You can find many people your age. Don't go wasting it on a 45yr old!
2007-05-21 06:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by Christian T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the age gap would bother me but, if it doesnt bother you then go for it. He probably doesn't speak to you because you never called. He figures you don't want to talk to him. But, I bet if you called him he would talk. Just let him know that you are sorry it has taken you so long but you had to get some things straightened out. Or something like that.
2007-05-21 09:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by BeccaLynn R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No your a rude person you could have at least kept up or something it doesn't take long to text or just drop him a line let him know you might be interested but hey your fault for being so rude and cold, i hope he finds someone better than you,
2007-05-21 09:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by Cookie Monster!! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You do not owe him anything He is way to old for you Concentrate on your school apartment and career Enjoy life and live it
2007-05-21 09:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by chameleon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares about the age gap. If you're happy, then do it. Call him and see what comes from it.
2007-05-21 09:36:45 · answer #5 · answered by engineer46526 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh, man...dont give me the age thing now....ask yourself, DO YOU LIKE HIM?
if yes, why the hesitation? call now, ok, fine, it;s not a toll-free number..............you are so lucky that i dont have his number, or i will be the one calling, not you! ha....just kidding!
hope that helps.
all the best, girl! :)
2007-05-21 09:40:33 · answer #6 · answered by curious_vanila 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes too OLD FOR U! In another 15 years time u gonna be 37 and he will be a 60 year old GRANDFATHER!!!
THis man is old enuff to be ur father...do u wanna date ur father? How will u introduce your new boyfriend to your dad : HI DAD PLEASE MEET MY BOYFRIEND "DAD"!
2007-05-21 10:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by GUY23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call him if you are interested in getting to knowing him...
2007-05-21 09:37:47 · answer #8 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh. You have a perfectly good explanation. Call him soon before he moves on. Right now he's probably wondering what he did wrong to you. If you're interested let him know.
2007-05-21 09:38:45 · answer #9 · answered by Saiila 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simply put, if he's interesting to you give him a call.
2007-05-21 09:42:36 · answer #10 · answered by nikki bling bling 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋