I was married in college to a great guy. I was immature though and I left him. Now, I want him back for good. He's ben seeing a girl who has lately developed seizures. He told me he doesn't love her. He feels obligated to be with her. We've always stayed in contact. We share many, many interests. He told me some time ago, that he will think about it. What are my chances???
2007-05-21 01:49:27 · 15 answers · asked by Christine 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Ever heard the one about a snowball in hell.
Love and blessings Don
2007-05-21 01:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
And this is in R&S why? I think you need to take your life into your own hands and not place it in the hands of another. Live your life, meet people, go on dates. If he loves you and wants to come back to you, he will. If he feels his obligation is more important, he won't. And, of course, he may have just told you what you wanted to hear because he's a coward and didn't want the confrontation he was afraid of if he told you that he really loved the other girl. What you have to do is stop giving other people control of your happiness. You say you left him because you were immature. Well, look at it as a life lesson. When you know better you do better. And the next relationship you are in, whether it is with him or someone else, you will do better. God bless.
2007-05-21 01:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by Sharon M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all you need to evaluate yourself. prepare for his return. go get the book "The proper caring and feeding of husbands." You will learn alot about you and your husband. then wait to let him notice how different you can be with him. You might find out who her family is, so they can properly care for this other woman. and by all means, don't have children till your marriage is strong enough. at this point I would say 5 years. learn to love each other so strong that you would never let go. Make your health your hobby, get him strong as well. and let him be a man, and you learn to use your womanhood to lead him back to you.
2007-05-21 02:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by spotlite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody knows what your chances are except your ex- husband. Ask him. Or if you have already asked him - wait for his answer.
Why is this in the Religion and Spirituality section? Are you praying that he'll come back to you!?!?!?
2007-05-21 02:02:59 · answer #4 · answered by liddabet 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I were him, I'd stay with the current girlfriend. The way I would look at it is, you left me once, why won't you do it again? So to Hell with you! And this woman needs and loves me.
2007-05-21 01:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
the bible says if you are divorced except for adultry, you can not remarry-and that if you do it is an abomination to remarry your x.
what you need is a god in your life not to be any other than the God of the bible-you think your happiness depends on getting what you 'lost' there were reasons you walked away but you blame yourself
this is what helped me get the God that keeps me happy-i am divorced too seeking a true princess and Jesus comforts me and keeps me happier than ever too. married at 18 it lasted 2 years-fun every day but her anger at her dad ended up coming out on me-she told me she would always love me and left to stop from her abuse of me-now she is remarried and i am truely free and happy!
this helped me =good point-and proof its not in the genes its in the jeans a choice
what helped me get delivered=there is an answer to your question -and as with me once -there is pride some call it gay pride-yet goes beyond to demanding approval here-did they ever hear of salvation-the answer to your question, not religion -salvation-I like your honesty too.
this came from another question but it has the answer for you.
If you lead a perfect life and tell one lie-no matter how much good you do you have sinned against Jesus-if you lead 100 elderly ladies across the street-they will say how wonderful you are, but if you knock one down and let her get hit by a car-you go to jail-the good doesnt out weight the bad.
Jesus said except you repent and be born again you can not see the kingdom of heaven. John 3 & if you keep the whole law and break it in one point you have broken the law.
be carefull about this-satan comes as a creature of light to decieve destroy and kill-if you know your going to die or someone does they should serve Jesus even more till that day.
and praying for you from the question you withdrew-about what your going through
this may inspire you too=truely I am sorry for things I have done in the past living in sin. Yet today I am living my life dream-traveling sharing the gospel in Russia, Israel and more and living in the joy of Jesus salvation,
If I wasnt living this new life -I would regret what i never did because I had money as a rich Jewish guy, but was so empty I was going to commit suicide -money couldnt buy me happiness.
So I say they are equal as to what I would rather.
and this is what helped me to see the things to regret and how not to regret them anymore and live my life dream every day=some issues
this is dealing with these issues, and salvation is the answer to self confidence and marriage-never give up-I
this helped me alot too in this area=Romans 1 Some are unthankful to God and worship the created instead of the creator and are turned over to a reprobate mind to do what is unseamly.
Ist Corinthians gives the answer to blind people too-"And such WERE some of you, but you have been cleansed by the blood of Jesus.
"For by grace are you saved through faith, it is the gift of God not of works lest anyone should boast." Ephesians 2:8&9
JESUS IS RIGHT!
WE HAVE to bring salvation by Jesus the Lord our Tzedak =The Lord is our righteousness
Isaiah 53 explains how the Lord becomes our righteousness
at the destruction of the temple Jesus had already given the sacrifice of blood for sin
Moses explained "The life of the flesh is in the blood and I have given it upon the altar to make atonement for your souls." Leviticus 17:11
believe Moses and the promised Messiah
atonement
it is helping people of their faith and can also be used though rarely to help people that personally know the religious people's Messiah Jesus.
because they love the Messiah Jesus and all others.
Isaiah 9:6 "Unto us a child is born a son is given, and he will be almighty GOD, and the Prince of Peace."
Isaiah 52:13-53:12 states "He shall lay down his life to make atonement for our sins."
thus we get to chose our life style with power to live right from a Messiah that will save us and be our best friend, and helping others, or helping others to be our own savior thinking we are earning our way to heaven.
praying for you and best wishes too that you stand up for what Jesus would rather do too-live and help others to live and you will be a victor going through life - peace-David
a woman said they are hypocrites, well I would rather be in a group with hypocrites than go to hell tormented forever gnashing teeth, weeping forever for rejecting salvation-Revelation 19-22nd chapters and heavens joy is described there too.
In hell do you want your forever weeping to be with the words-I wouldnt listen-they were so wrong-while you see the wrong ones near you gnashing their teeth too
a hug to you friend and again my prayers too
2007-05-21 01:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ha! And you think he doesn't tell her exactly the same things he tells you. Wake up, and first and foremost remember your karma.
2007-05-21 01:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never return to a previously failed relationship. It's bound to fail again.
2007-05-21 01:54:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND. HE HAS A WOMAN...DON'T BE THE CAUSE OF THEIR BREAK UP BECAUSE THAT CAN HAPPEN TO YOU IN THE FUTURE. THERE ARE MILLIONS OF FREE HANDSOME MAN OUT THERE. YOU'LL FIND "THE ONE"
2007-05-21 01:58:46 · answer #9 · answered by Annie Karina 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If it is meant to be it will be. Give him some space to work out where he's at.
2007-05-21 01:53:05 · answer #10 · answered by Screamin' Banshee 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋