you always hear that personalities are important. but then why do so many guys go for shallow girls?i mean the stupid hott ones. i mean yeah i understand that looks are important. but honestly on a scale from one to ten, how important is everything else to you? sure your girlfriend may be hott, but can she carry on a conversation? or does that not even interest guys these days anymore.
2007-05-20 19:23:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
rating 1-10:
body/looks i'll rate it 7
personality 9
for me personality is more important to build a strong relationship although looks is important too..
but other guys prefer for hot girls coz they would like to be appreciated by their friends or by someone because his girl is beautiful and what so ever..
and it depends with the taste of a guy
2007-05-20 19:38:12 · answer #1 · answered by Dew s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the guy. Some guys don't want a smart girl because they may feel threatened by her intelligence. Some just want to have a good time and nothing more. Personally I need to be able to talk to the girls I date because you can't have sex 24 hours a day. I look for the eyes and smile as well as personality first. I have dated models, average looking women, big and small women and I am a healthy attractive man so it is not as if I can't date only stupid bimbos I just chose not to. So for me personality and the face (smile, lips, eyes, etc.) are 9 and the rest is maybe a 4 or 5 as far as importance. If a guy wants a relationship, he will try and find someone who has personality and intelligence. It's like they say, there are girls you may sleep with/party with and girls you "bring home to mom". The stupid hot ones are not respected by most guys, they treat them like they are strippers or someone who is not worth anything to them.
2007-05-21 02:33:09 · answer #2 · answered by jian9007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The body is the first thing guys will look at. Most of the time, if there isn't an immediate attraction, you're dismissed. It also depends on where you are; if you're at club, and your body isn't great (but still okay), if anything, you'll be put on a list of possibilities if nothing else works out. The only time personality can help is if you're in an environment where someone can actually get to know you (e.g., at work) but most of the time there are limits. The only guys that are with fat girls are guys that are equally unattractive, lonely, have no self esteem, or have very little self confidence.
2007-05-21 02:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by The Oracle of Rome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks aren't the most important thing but they help.
I'd rather be happy with someone with a great personality, than a woman that has looks and is shallow. girls with looks tend to have an opinion about other women, including mothers and grandmothers. But what they fail to realize is that looks only last so long.
And besides if you are dating a hot chick, you have to worry about other guys, and also try to maintain her appeal towards you. Very hard when other guys are constantly trying to hit on her. The minute you disappoint her, and cant satisfy her, she'll check her closet for the past guys she met while being hit on.
2007-05-21 02:36:20 · answer #4 · answered by Lilkryptonite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. I've seen that alot with girls as well. They would rather go for the bad a** and not the nice guy. Remember that many guys have animalistic urges. They don't want to think about the girl, they just want their physical needs to be met. I am sorry that that is the way that it is these days sometimes. Looks are nice, but nothing without personality. I favor nice good girls.
2007-05-21 02:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by TheSilverBeetles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First impressions count so people with good looks will often get the most attention, whether they deserve it or not.
As far as relationships go, it is fortunate that not all people are attracted to the same things. Some people experience a sense of attraction for no reason other than they "just click" and looks never matter - because it wasn't looks that led to the 'click' occurring.
2007-05-21 02:34:06 · answer #6 · answered by Ratsoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 20, and with me it's definitely personality over body. If I am talking to a hot girl and she is not as smart as I would like or doesn't have a sense of humor, I actuallly find her less attractive, and the opposite is also true. I have met girls that I was not very attracted to, but after talking to them and becoming friends, actually find them more physically attractive. Maybe I have a brain defect, but it definitely helps me pick a good person to be with. So I would say that she needs to be 70% personality 30% body, but that's just me.
2007-05-21 02:30:52 · answer #7 · answered by duggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality is more important. It is probably an age thing. When guys are younger, they want the hot girl. But as you get older, you realize how important it is to be able to have educated discussions\conversations.
Like Ron White says "you can't fix stupid"
2007-05-21 02:27:03 · answer #8 · answered by bigtalltom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I was single and not looking for a long term relationship...looks was everything! My wife is beautiful, hardcore, and Irish. Really Irish! She can out drink me, at times out fight me, and is jealous as an Irish woman. She is also smart (if you overlook the fact she married me) and makes me a better person for the simple fact she cares if I am or not. If you are with a guy who is with you only for looks, at least he is honest, however shallow, about what he wants.
2007-05-21 02:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by coastaltugcaptain 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would pass the perfect for the perfect personality , with a touch of loyalty with that personality you cant go wrong.
think long term , perfect isnt that perfect at 80 , and when you get older , you need someone to talk to , pretty girls sometimes have a pretty hard battle when they turn to seed , and battle with keeping the fountain of youth flowing , natural girls just keep on trucking.. and dont think so self indulgent
2007-05-21 02:31:16 · answer #10 · answered by DSV 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋