by knit-picking and over analyzing every little thing, taking every thing into consideration or reading it as a sign, so that even when things are going good they don't want to lose it but end up doing so by suffocating their partner?
2007-05-20 19:04:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES IT DOES HAPPEN!!!
I just got out of a relationship, and she was exactly that way.
-If she asks me a question and i answer her, she doesn't believe me. She already has her own answer for me.
-If I talk to any woman around me ( cousins, co workers, old friends, friends girlfriends or wives, Yes I said cousins) I'm cheating on her.
-If she asks for money, and I don't have any to give her, she has to over analyze why I don't have any money for her.
Sometimes we had our good days, and evrything would be alright, but when she didn't have her way, she try to make me decide who to be with either her or my FAMILY. So one day I finally got fed up she went to california with her friends. 5 guys with her and her friend,(If I did that I wouldn't hear the end of it) I scheduled it to when she got back all her crap was outside my house waiting for the garbage truck, I changed all my locks to my house, and changed all my tel#s. When she got back all she did was laugh. and her 5 guy friends were trying to get into my house to attack me, cops came by and arrested all of them, for breaking and entering including my ex. Haven't heard from her since.
2007-05-20 19:28:04 · answer #1 · answered by Lilkryptonite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!!!
Some people tend to carry over their problems from a previous relationships or insecure for whatever reason. If you constantly are worrying that something bad is going to happen, then you are constantly looking for something to validate that regardless if it's true or not. Ultimately, this will push your partner away.
2007-05-20 19:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by Princess Sophia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it can happen.
Everybody need space, room to roam, air to breathe.
I have been guilty of this in the past.
But giving someone room to roam, does not mean giving them carte blanche to go party on their own.
there must be groung rules and understanding from both parties.
Sometime by being overly loving and affectionate you can drive someone away.
just relax enjoy the moment and life.
Do not over analyse everything, do not read too much into things, talk to each other, see what can be done to please both.
2007-05-20 19:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by Patrick D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's true. It's also true that people can fix that habit, sometimes on their own and sometimes with the help of a therapist. It's just a question of them asking themselves, "Why do I keep doing this to myself?"
2007-05-20 19:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All the time! I myself have been guilty.... you freak out at the idea of a realtionship actually working. Of being with someone forever. Of relying on someone.
Its scary stuff!!
Sometimes it seems easy just to wreck it, at least then you have saved yourself. they can't break your heart if you do it first.
2007-05-20 19:13:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you're describing one of my friends' relationships. She keeps doing the same and losing. Very true.
2007-05-20 19:10:49 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes this is true.
Some people are scared or do not know how to maintain a relationship and go out to destroy it. Whether intentional or not.
2007-05-20 19:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by x7bren 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea, some of my frineds look for reasons to break up with their partners.
2007-05-20 19:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by Will C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-05-20 19:06:50 · answer #9 · answered by god_chic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Some people do it on purpose and some by nature......
2007-05-20 19:09:03 · answer #10 · answered by Me-Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋