If you had a chance to do it all over again, would you still have chosen to have children?
2007-05-20 18:19:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Yes
2007-05-20 18:26:15 · answer #1 · answered by Heather Y 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very interesting question. There have been times in the recent past when I began to understand why some people chose not to have children. Parenthood is often not easy particularly thru the teenage and early adult years. And, when you look at the world and society today, you sometimes wonder if you were selfish bringing children into the world.
Sometimes, I have thought that the worry about my children's health, safety, their choices later in their life may not have been worth it. But, now that I have the most beautiful, darling two little grandsons and recall and re-live the most wonderful moments with my own children, I know that I would still choose to have children if I had to do it all over again.
2007-05-21 01:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by chansenfam@sbcglobal.net 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would have still chosen to have my kids...I wouldnt know what to do without them..Carring a child for 9 mths and then giving birth is incredible..Did you ever think you could love someone so much without even seeing them...My kids have brought so much love, happiness, and joy into my life...I would do it all over again!!! When I gave birth to my 1st baby I was in hard labor for 3 days and in so much pain that 2 epidurals didnt work and I had back labor...After I had my baby and looked into her beautiful eyes it was all worth it..I would do it all over in a heart beat....I hope every mother feels the same and every dad would too....
2007-05-21 03:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by Froggie Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not really sure. I love my children and so when I think of what this world and a lot of the people in it are becoming, I think that maybe I shouldn't have brought them here. I feel my children, like all children are too good to be living in the world today. That's the only reason I'd chose not to have my babies.
2007-05-21 02:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by Violet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have lived a little before I started, but yes, I was thinking today..... as hard as it's been, raising three children, a lot of the time with little or no support, I wouldn't take anything for the experiences life has brought with my children. I would do it all over again. :)
2007-05-21 01:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by omgithinkiknow 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would and I have had a horrible time with both my children and their health problems, but I cannot even imagine what it would be like without my two girls. I still want one more child.
2007-05-21 01:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by bindyangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing as how all my children were planned pregnanacy between me and my husband. I wouldn't have a reason to do anything over. I'm very much happy with my children.
2007-05-21 01:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!!!! I only regret that I cannot have more. Medically I can't. But I pray for God to heal me. if not than I pray to someday be able to adopt a child. Not necessarily a baby, just a child who my husband, son and I can love, protect, raise and give a genuine home to.
2007-05-21 02:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by Honee-Bee93 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but I would chosen to be a little older and wiser.
2007-05-21 08:35:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe it or not, yes!
i can't imagine my life without my little one. having children of your own is incredible. (eventhough they can stress you out somtimes)
it's well worth it.
2007-05-21 01:23:50 · answer #10 · answered by kazemii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋