It is hard for me to be open to people and to express and explain how I feel inside. How can I?
2007-05-20 17:16:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To be honest i am the same way i know how hard it is but if you feel that you can not open to him then you are going to have to tell him that and be honest with him and if he can be patient with you then he is a good person but if not then you know what you have to do. Good luck
2007-05-20 17:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by only me 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Address the reasons why you aren't for starters. There's a reason(s) why you can't and before you resolve this then you'll never make any progress. Then decide if the person you want to open up to is deserving of your new open ways. Be careful what you tell tho, sometimes it comes back to haunt you
2007-05-21 00:23:25 · answer #2 · answered by Bittuh_Brutha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you aren't sure what to say. I'd suggest writing stream-of-consciousness on the subject and see if that clarifies anything. Then maybe you'd feel more confident talking about it.
That's a technical answer, I know, but you didn't give any other background that might suggest deeper issues.
2007-05-21 00:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by Houyhnhnm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get out of your shell hon. If you want a open and honest relationship, you have to talk. Talking is the answer. Tell him you dont know how to exspress yourself and you need his help.
2007-05-21 00:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by aka nuggets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is start to open up and say how you feel, does
not matter what being say just open your mouth and talk
it will get much easier as time go on. but you need to be
postive and le the words flow. good luck.
2007-05-21 00:24:08 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start with talking, keep things slow. And take a leap, nothing will come from it if you dont let something through. Good luck!
~Neil
2007-05-21 00:21:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh.. yes.. i have the SAME problem. i understand how scary it can be. if you find that you cant simply talk to them, start by writing them a letter and having them (or you)read it in front of you. this may help if you have trouble simply finding words. also, you are going to have to share your problem so that you can address it. good luck. :)
2007-05-21 00:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by ziiggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it that you are so afraid of that you will not open?
You must look within yourself to answer that
2007-05-21 00:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋