his little guy doesn't work???
I've been inimate with this guy 5 times waiting for him to feel comfortable hoping he can get his "little guy" to perform but no such luck. The last two times he asked me out I said no but he is going to keep asking. I dont know what to say to him. The guy doesn't seem to have much confidence with women.He wants a compaionship yet he can't function and wont explain why. how do i tell him thanks but no thanks without hurting his feelings and causing more damage to the little one???
2007-05-20 17:03:27 · 12 answers · asked by Single Gal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can you give him just the companionship? Leave the LITTLE ONE alone for a while, maybe its nervous! Get to know him as a person on a real date. Something really big & surprising might follow! He probably thinks you are so beautiful and you make him feel inferior, so he thinks he could never please you. He needs something outside of the bedroom first.
2007-05-20 17:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh, that's a tough one. Have you tried to get him up for the situation at hand by giving him head? (and to restore his confidence that his little guy can truly perform if given a good chance at success!) If that don't work, ask him what's wrong? then wait for an answer. If it's a "I Don't know," or he simply won't answer, ask him to go see a doctor to find out what's wrong. Tell him they have pills for everything these days.
2007-05-20 17:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by Andy K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were intimate with him 5 times and he never
'performed',there is definitely a problem. He needs to see a doctor.
Tell him not to call you until he gets his life [ and his parts ] straightened out.
2007-05-20 17:10:35 · answer #3 · answered by Nurse Susan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that he is the type of man that needs to be emotionally connected with a woman before he can become sexually aroused.
Not all men can have sex with anyone who offers. He might be coming back and trying because he is afraid of what you could be thinking about him and his embarrasing mishap with his ability to perform.
2007-05-20 17:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhh, ignore him duh..block his phone number out and just dont talk to him anymore when you see him in the street. Put a hood on your head tell hes just not cutting it.
2007-05-20 17:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by NONEYA! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's thinking about it too much so when the time comes he just cant? idk but let him off easy especially if he doesn't have much confidence cause you could mess him up for life if your too tough. so tell him the truth
2007-05-20 17:07:42 · answer #6 · answered by crazysk8tr15 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesnt reaspect you for being a booty call and giving it up so easily and his body is reflecting that
2007-05-20 17:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by Lupita 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him u don wanna hv JUS sex nemore...u r tired of it...now u want a real bf....n tell him since hes not lookin for that mayb its better if u 2 don 'do' it nemore....
2007-05-20 17:10:47 · answer #8 · answered by ANONYMOUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just bust out laughing next time. That should put an end to it......
2007-05-20 17:07:09 · answer #9 · answered by joker 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell us how old you two are...that might have something to do with it.
2007-05-20 17:07:14 · answer #10 · answered by a b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋