The reason I ask is, well I met someone and we get along so great but hes MARRIED !!! eerrghh! He even said 'what if we're meant to be? .... It just makes me think, someone once told me that you will know when it is your soulmate becaue you are suppose to ressemble one another somehow.... what do you think? = and i think we ressemble a lil bit with our check bones//
2007-05-20 16:52:36 · 21 answers · asked by just me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are grasping at straws here. Having similar cheekbones means nothing. You would really break up someone's marriage cause of cheekbones? Would you want someone to break up your marriage if you were married? It isn't meant to be because he is already taken. If you date an adulterer, he'll just turn around and do it to you also. I do believe in soulmates but they are someone you date and fall in love with the normal way. Not bey stealing them from someone else. Remind him of his vows, his family and the fact he'd be comitting a sin.
2007-05-20 16:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soulmates... Well, if we have many lives, then we have a LOT of soulmates. Not just one! I think that's the part people get confused about.
If this is based upon the theory of reincarnation, then it stands to reason that we've come in contact with many, many other souls during the course of our lifetimes, doesn't it?
If this one is married, then perhaps it just means that YOU were unavailable during the last lifetime you two met. If you let go, you might meet another soulmate who is available.
2007-05-20 23:58:45 · answer #2 · answered by Solstice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off: what the hell are you doing with a married man? Have you ever heard of,"Do unto others as you would have done unto you"? Second: No. There is no such thing as "soul mates". To have a relationship that works - you have work at your relationship! And as long as you are having relations with a married person - you are DOOMED. Ask yourself this: "If he is cheating on someone that he swore vows with: what do you think he is going to honor in your relationship? You are a port in a storm. Never heard it? The whole saying goes,"Any port in a storm!" Get it?
2007-05-21 00:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by Jocelyn B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your situation doesn't even apply to soul mates .If he were your soul mate he wouldn't want you to be involved with a married man . Yes some people have a spiritual connection . They aspire to make each other the best they can be ,especially morally .They love each other so much that if one or the other were married ,they would never tell the other person of their love .A soul mate cares about your soul first and foremost .
2007-05-21 00:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by opinionated 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
II believe in destiny, but if he is married, you need to leave him alone. Someone else saw him first. And if you look that similar, your probably related. This man is not the one for you. Besides, I have always heard that "opposites attract". Just thank the man for his time, tell him to go make love to his wife and not think of you or any other woman.
2007-05-20 23:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by Brandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mad if you fall for this bull dust. My ex told the girl taht he had an affair with the exact same bull dust. If they are married stay away. Think about how you would feel if you where his wife and someone was messing with your husband. Its a selfish choice on your part if you get involved. Trust me if you do KARMA will get you just like it always will.
2007-05-21 00:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's already married he's already found HIS soulmate.Keep the relationship platonic or send him packing.Remember if he cheats on his wife with you he will likely cheat on you if you get together.His "what if "question is just a line,dont fall for it.Keep looking your soulmate IS out there somewhere.
2007-05-20 23:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by john s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your boyfriend is full of it, and so are you. [ ha! you do resemble each other! ]
If he cheats on her, what makes you think he won't cheat on you? History always seems to repeat itself in these cases.
"Soulmates" works in soap operas, and you know how long those marraiges last!
I believe some people could marry almost any normal person of opposite sex and be happy [ my husband ]; but others are harder to live with [ me ].
My husband and I don't resemble each other at all, but we both have one thing in common: the ability to recognize
bull.
2007-05-21 00:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by Nurse Susan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that there is a connection with him then go for it but only AFTER he has told his wife. You don't want to be the other women. And yes I do feel that there is such things as soul mates. GOOD LUCK!!
2007-05-20 23:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by Bina 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really believe that there is.Some people let that moment pass them by,or they just don't find them.Now for your case if he is not happy in his marriage then he needs to divorce his wife and then y'all can find out if y'all are meant to be.If there are kids involved then you need to step back and let him work out his problems with his wife before he gets divorce.Also a reminder he may be one of those husbands that like to cheat on his wife and he is telling you these things to get in your pants,and then leave you once he got what he wanted.Just think about it and be careful before you put your self out there.
2007-05-20 23:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by aejr2005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋