okay maybe I phrased it more properly this time. If you enjoyed oral sex, and chose to do it out of pure enjoyment for yourself, but NEVER recieved it from your partner, would it be a dealbreaker? Even if the actual sex itself was hot and almost worth it?
2007-05-20 16:38:35 · 14 answers · asked by memememe!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i have given oral to someone i didnt receive it from but i enjoyed doing it so it was no big deal
2007-05-20 16:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by Thyk L 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OK this may sound weird but i was with my babys father for 5 yrs and i always gave him oral sex..But i never recieved it back from him. I would often wonder why want i let him do it, i just feel he wont do it right and i cant see myself teaching him it takes the fun out. But i do have that somebody on the side who does oral sex so well ......he can do me anyday! But yea i would expect oral back for ur guy its only fair!
2007-05-20 16:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by Cvis 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im sooooooooooooo going thru that now in the last 9 months ive gotten it done 5 times i just say if u love him then be patient i was the first person he's done im not going to leave becuz of it besides i have a toy that does oral on me lol
2007-05-20 16:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by redz1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I love giving it. But I think if my bf NEVER gave it back to me in return I would eventually not perform oral on him anymore. No, I know I would stop doing it.
2007-05-22 12:21:25 · answer #4 · answered by movingirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be a deal breaker if receiving it was not an option at all.
If I wanted to do it, and didn't feel I wanted him to do it, that's fine. But if he just out right refused to do it to me, then there'd be problem.
Reciprocation is healthy and important, I choose that over anything.
2007-05-23 12:55:17 · answer #5 · answered by Lane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no because if you are enjoying what you are doing to him and you do it of your own free will, that is your choice. So you can't turn around and punish him for not reciprocating. No one makes you do what you do, it is your choice.
2007-05-20 16:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on the person but some gals like giving but don't like receiving...
2007-05-20 16:43:15 · answer #7 · answered by Brandy W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if its the first time - its ok.
afterwords - i dont think im gona go back there if sex wasnt good and i got nothing out of it.
2007-05-23 17:46:16 · answer #8 · answered by Natalie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? Seriously, I'd talk to my guy about it or get him to do it some how. It's called seducing ur lover.
2007-05-20 16:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by Jeska J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if he's not gonna do it then im not gonna do it. simple. unless yu jus realli like pleasing him but if you feel its not fair then dont do it unless he's willing to go there for you.
2007-05-23 19:22:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋