I just met this guy at the bus station last night, and when I took him home for sex, I asked him to put on a condom (I don't feel like getting pregnant AGAIN) and he acted all offended and he wouldn't put it on. I just gave him oral and he went home, but is it really that much to ask that he put one on? What is the best way of bringing it up so that I don't keep scaring men away? I've had this happen with 3 or 4 guys just in the past week.
2007-05-20 16:27:06 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Is it impolite for him to give you AIDS? Good god woman!
2007-05-20 16:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by Points whore 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is not fun for a guy to wear a condom. It interrupts the excitement and if it is not a lamb skin condom, rubber has little or no feeling. Listen , which would you rather have , a baby, or maybe STD's or have some guy go away unhappy. You have to think of your own safety girl. Sounds like you did him a big favor. If he does not come back then he wasn't worth it. Don't be in such a hurry to have sex with guys. Sounds like you are using sex to attract men. I'm glad you had sense enough to insist on them wearing a condom. That was smart. Maybe offer them a lamb skin if you really can not resist. I feel awkward about answering this but I'm concerned for you.
Be safe girl, that would be my advice.
Rev. TomCat
2007-05-20 16:44:44 · answer #2 · answered by Rev. TomCat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first issue is why in hell are you picking up strange or new guys at a bus station and having sex with them??!! In that situation, whether they wear condoms or not is the LEAST of your problems!! Now, in a more intelligent situation, wherein the two people might actually know one another longer than it takes to share a cup of coffee or talk about where they're from, whether the guy wears a condom is NOT a matter of politeness or etiquette!! It's a demand that ought never need to be voiced in the first place since the man ought to want to take care of himself enough to WANT to wear a condom, regardless of what the woman wants. And unwanted pregnancy is not the only issue here. STD's (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) is one too!! God Bless you.
2007-05-20 16:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you for real? If you are I'm feeling really sad for you, but you asked a question so here's my answer.
Tell them simply "If its (the condom) not on - its (sex) not on!" and MEAN IT! Tell them up front, before you let them into your home, and if they don't agree then they don't go home with you.
Two things - oral sex without a condom can give you diseases too. And where the hell is your self respect?
Try instead of just getting them home for sex, you look for someone worthy of a relationship? You are living a life style that threatens your very life. Not only through the possibility of sexually transmitted diseases, including AIDS, but the risk of bringing someone home with you who could take you life.
Please, you need to take care of yourself.
2007-05-20 16:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is certainly not impolite, you have the right (and responsibility) to ask to be treated the way you wish to be. However, guys you just met at a bus stop may think that they don't have to treat you with respect.
Practice saying 'if it ain't on, it ain't on' ~ sure you will lose a few guys, but think about how much you need a good night's sleep, anyway!
Truly, be a little kinder to yourself ...
Good luck :-)
2007-05-20 17:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by thing55000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm... first off, always insist on a condom. It'll keep you from getting diseases and/or being knocked up by a stranger from a bus station...
Then again, if you are doing this with 3 or 4 random guys a week, you've probably already got a bunch of diseases anyway.
Christ I hope this posting is a useless joke and not for real, cuz' if its real, then I may have to re-evaluate my position on sterilizing dumb people. Then again, if its fake, then I may have to re-evaluate my position on sterilizing people with underdeveloped senses of humor.
2007-05-20 16:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by billyrobison453 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If I thought this was a real person asking a real question I would cringe in the name of all women every where.
Please get a better life, and stop making women seem even more weak and stupid than people already believe us.
If you really are this simple minded, Go with God, and go Get a Councilor! Thats a grown up that gives advice and help to people.
2007-05-20 16:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by Sen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guess I can't relate to picking up sex at a bus depot.---3 or 4 guys in the past week??
You need some serious help from someone. Who is watching your child while you are trolling?? Sex can kill and most definitely is not a bus station action.
2007-05-20 16:36:43 · answer #8 · answered by lilabner 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, once it's on you aren't supposed to take it off. Condoms are a lifetime deal. The next time you have sex, you must put another condom on over the one you are currently wearing, and so on and so forth. It's extraordinarily unhealthy to remove a condom from your penis once it has been used.
2016-05-22 15:24:15 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Madam, are what we in the intelligent community are known as a whore. The least of your worries is a condom,you need either your tubes tied or a lobotomy.Ether way a piece of an organ needs to come out.If you are for real it's clear that your simple minded, and God Bless you if you are.
I can only imagine the sub human trash you drag home disguising itself as a "man", lol and you WANT to screw them???After seeing your pic I refuse to believe that there are no rufies involved.LOL
You need to get to a psychiatrist (that's pro pounced si-ki-a-trist for the simple minded ones.)Or maybe talk to someone with an above 60 IQ.And stop producing those poor simple minded babies.
2007-05-20 16:52:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
One wonders about one who begins a narrative with the phrase, "I just met this guy at the bus station last night. . ." because everyone knows that only individuals of the highest quality frequent bus stations at night. Nice!
2007-05-20 16:39:44 · answer #11 · answered by LA Law 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋