Now what do I do now?
What should I say to him?
2007-05-20 16:26:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
just be his friend. don't tell him you like him though. but just see where the friendship takes you and just ride the wind
2007-05-20 16:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by =) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept him as a friend for now on, don't rush things or you might really hurt the reletonship if appears that he doesn't have crush on you at that point of stage. Just try to accept him as a friend and you might be surprised how fast he will start liking you.
2007-05-20 23:30:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you value him as a friend? This is a great way to begin, if you can't be friends on what will you base a relationship? Physical attraction is strong and wonderful; but, a relationship will not work if that is the ONLY thing the two of you have in common. Be his friend, it may be he just wants to hang out and have fun with you OR he may want to get to know you better to see if the two of you have enough in common to date. Either way you win - you get to spend time with him and get to know him better! Have fun and take things slowly.
2007-05-27 16:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by marshfield_meme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always good to start any relationship as friends. Being his friend you will get to know him inside and out. It will help you decide exactly how you feel about this guy and if you want it to be more then friendship. Never tell a guy your interested, have some pride and dignity, if he likes you, he will definitely let you know. You can never have too many friends =0)
2007-05-21 00:53:53 · answer #4 · answered by Lizzie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just maybe he likes you too? Be his friend, and find out if you have anything in common. It's my experience that the idea of the man is usually alot better than the real thing, lol so hold off telling him about your crush.
2007-05-25 15:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by Penny K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept it then see what will happen! As time past observed if your feelings or his feelings change. Just be nice and show your real self to him! Don't tell that you like him but show it to him or give him a sign!. If one day he confess that he likes you too then you are so lucky!!! I have so many friends that their love story started of being a friend!!! So try it!!! Isn't it romantic if your friend became your boyfriend! Go on:) You can do it!!
2007-05-20 23:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by Sachiko Sakura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being friends first is GREAT! I would advise to try moving from a friendship into a relationship...is just to try flirting. You will get an idea of how he feels about you with the way he responds. If he flirts back, then its a green light to tell him how you feel. If he brushes you off or doesn't give you any flirtation back then he may just be into being your friend. good luck
2007-05-20 23:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be a very good start. If you like him, focus on him as a person and try not to get overwhelmed by the idea of having him as a boyfriend.
2007-05-20 23:34:08 · answer #8 · answered by coppersmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya always start out as friends then work your way into dating, its a good way to find out if you two would be great for each other, Say Yes i would love to be your friend, go slow take it easy. things will work there self out. time will tell if you two are meant to be BF and GF
2007-05-28 16:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by Jon S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a good start if you know how to use it...
Stop being available to him...
when he invites you to do something,
say you will go and then cancel at the last minute...
tell him what girls are "just right for him" (of course make sure, those aren't his type)...and tell him that girls he likes are using him (which will probably be true seeing how all girls are users--sorry that's my own persona problem...lol)
Don't be clingy...and let him know, subttly that you are unavailable to him...talk about other guys...and how the guys you like are nothing like him...
People love things they can't have.
Don't listen to people that tell you "everything happens for a reason..." or " if its meant to be it will happen..." Because those people are idiots.
2007-05-20 23:31:15 · answer #10 · answered by Julian X 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
being friends is a fantastic way to start....
now that you are friends you can easily show him how great you are and get him to like you....
just dont try too hard...
and try not to dwell on the crush so much..... good luck
be yourself
2007-05-20 23:30:29 · answer #11 · answered by zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋