how does a shy guy know if hes getting serious attention from a girl down the hallway?

Question

for myself i dont think i look all that bad in apperance, not all that great either but i never know if some girl is intrested in me how can i tell? how do you know that when a girl stares at you for 3 seconds she likes you! if she does not even talk to you and you have never met her before. i dont want to go right up to the girl and say "why were you stareing at me?" or in any other way that would look stupid!. I am not intrested in her i just want to know if that look means something greater then "you look great"

Answer 1

Like me and every other shy guy you are making this big huge thing out of each possible girl. You gotta get over this to ever have any luck.

I have two friends who treat women like Kleenex and have women outside their league standing in line. Both guys are broke losers and have below average looks. The difference between them and us is they just come onto every chick they meet. If a girl shuts them down they don't give it a thought, just go onto the next.

You gotta stop falling in love with women you don't know yet. You gotta stop putting women on a pedestal and worrying about if they are attracted to you or not.

Some girls are going to be flattered that you are coming onto them, you have no idea who these girls are and the only way to find out is to just try and maybe fail more times than you succeed, but if you fail ten times this week and then find one girl who likes you, that is better than going six month in love with some girl you are afraid to talk to.