O.k. there's this guy whom I like very much. Twice already I saw him @church but was talking to a blonde girl. And tonight I saw her talking to him but he seem to not paying much attention to her (argh I don't like this emotion) can't help but over heard the convo and his reply was oh yea, then went to the front row to speak to a guy and sat down 2 rows to my right (the other side) gosh it's been a while since I feel this way kinda strange...@ the end of the service I asked her how did she know the guy she said "i met him here @ the church" I can't help but pray that he won't feel anything for her but just another face on the crowd... I don't know if he is showing me that he's approachable or what but I have not spoken to him for a while... He has been chasing me for the past 2 yrs now & I am hoping/praying to God that he likes me2 and possibly love me :)
2007-05-20 15:36:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i see that your prayers are going to good use.
2007-05-20 15:40:31 · answer #1 · answered by Delete System32 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's mean.
You pray that someone would not have chemistry so that you can have chemistry? That is just plain selfish. True love does not seek it's own happiness. He may have moved on. He waited two years, he may have decided that it ain't gonna happen and moved on.
You need to work on the inside, if you are willing to hurt someone else to make yourself happy. I have hooked a guy up with the girl of my dreams while i liked her, in hopes that she would be happy with him, in the end she liked me, but once again True love does not seek it's own happiness.
2007-05-20 15:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out. Be shy and you can loose him. Go to a movie or just for a walk but approach him. Even if he likes someone else better, he might be someone who needs some help making first contact. I was.
2007-05-20 15:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you never know if he likes you....unless you ask! Go and talk to him more...show him the real you.....and once you get to know him......just ASK! That is how I got my guy...I was totally in love with him.....and then I finally got the courage to ask him out after about 2 years.....then he told me that he liked me too..........since the first time he saw me. He was just to scared to say anything. We have been going strong for about 3 years and I have never been happier!
2007-05-20 15:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're a little jealous and confused. Why don't you just go up to him and tell him how you feel? Than you'll know and it won't bother you anymore. You'll just get more frustrated and angry when you might end up missing out on your chance. Be brave and you never know. He might just like you back
2007-05-20 15:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by blessed mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not as a lot as you to confront this individual. it is your fiance's duty. He would prefer to positioned out a restraining order in this lady to get her to back off. of direction basically ignoring her has no longer made a dent.
2016-10-18 09:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by cywinski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do like you, and the blonde girl meant nothing to me.
Just kidding.
if I had to chase you for two years, and you didn't let me know you were interested, I'd be looking elsewhere. If you like him, then ask him out.
2007-05-20 15:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u'll never know if u don't TALK TO HIM. ask HIM how he knows HER instead of the other way around. :) and i love your use of "praying" when u'r talking about a guy u met in a church. sorry i just thought it was cute. good luck, i hope he likes you!!!! talk to him!!!
2007-05-20 15:41:53 · answer #8 · answered by pandabear1113 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're confused.
If he's been chasing you for two years now, why do you worry about him with another girl? Unless you've been ignoring him and playing hard to get (which is just stupid), I don't think you have much to worry about.
2007-05-20 15:40:32 · answer #9 · answered by Blazen Elite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make a moveeee. You're going to regret not knowing what could have happened if you don't.
2007-05-20 15:40:19 · answer #10 · answered by RedSox26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You apparently have a very active fantasy life.
TALK TO THE GUY, FOR PETE'S SAKE!!!
2007-05-20 15:40:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋