......guys/girls any of you regret sleeping w/ someone, now years/months later.... I do after I broke up w/ my gf, I don't know what i was thinkin but i did one of her friends...now everybody thinks that I'm a jerk, and my reputation is not as it used to be..
2007-05-20 15:23:26 · 13 answers · asked by uno 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
These things happen. (shrugs)
2007-05-20 15:28:09 · answer #1 · answered by Flamekat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but mine is a little different. You see it was the same person each time. My husband and I had trouble a few years ago, and he had an affair, then left to be with her. When he wanted (demanded) to come home, he wanted a full marriage - read sex - straight away. He said it would prove that I loved him and had forgiven him. I gave in and regretted it ever since.
I found out later that he actually continued the affair, some times having the both of us on the same day. Now I feel dirty, used, and I haven't been able to really let myself go, or enjoy sex since. Its so sad, but if I had done what I needed to protect myself, instead of giving in to him, I would be a happier person today.
Sex, even if its with the one you love, isn't always the right thing.
2007-05-20 22:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has regrets at some point, unless you've only ever been with one person. I have done too much in my life to start worrying about it now. I have two kids, hate their dads, but am thankful for them. The way I look at it, I had to go thru what I did to get where I am now and I love where I am now, so how can I regret it? I wouldn't have who I have now if I hadn't done everything I'd done in my past :)
2007-05-24 18:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by cindyw1eye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES I think most people do have regrets about this at some point in time! I know I do!!!
I gave into my 1st bf when I wasn't ready only because he pressured me SO much & i wanted to make him happy. This wasn't too long ago & now i'm actually battling thinking I may be pregnant. Believe me THIS IS NOT WHAT YOU WANT!
End of story: Don't EVER do anything you aren't ready to do. For ANYONE. Ever!! And remember your actions DO have consequences!!
2007-05-21 01:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by sunshinegirl802 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THere shouldn't be any regrets, you weren't with the girl anymore. If the friend accept to do it with you, then it was also her choice.
Now people call you jerk, is it because of what you did to the second girl or to the first....
2007-05-20 22:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people hav regrets about that. What do you do though. It wont change the fact. If you are really upset maybe you didnt get the girls forgivness so that is what is bothering you.
2007-05-20 22:28:28 · answer #6 · answered by stefani h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that. I kindof do...I called this guy that I had no clue in the world on who he was and he just talked NASTY to me,LOL. I regret that very,very much.
2007-05-20 22:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by Chelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck, as long as you and your girl were through, I see no reason for gettin' it on with her freind. As far as your rep goes, you will have to figure that one out for yourself.
2007-05-20 22:26:34 · answer #8 · answered by bikinybandit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...being intimate with someone sooner than I should have...But that was then and this is now...a person learns and grows...so I don't do such things anymore.
2007-05-20 22:28:14 · answer #9 · answered by onelight 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, nine months ago i was realllllly regreting it.
2007-05-20 22:25:59 · answer #10 · answered by tbarron314 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋