my bf is the absoutly best. his name is mitchell w. i really love him. I didnt talk to him in 3 days. Would it mean he doesnt like me? It really happened, but he called me today and we had a very long convosation. on the phone. so, help me.
2007-05-20 13:22:06 · 28 answers · asked by Natalie A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like your very young. Don't stress over him not calling, guys do not like insecurity.
2007-05-20 13:26:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he act differently when he called you today? If not, then maybe he just got busy with other things and didn't think not talking to you for those three days was a big deal. Sometimes guys think that if a girl knows that they really like or love them, then they don't need to constantly reassure her of it. Just ask him in a calm way if everything is still okay between the two of you if you have any doubts.
2007-05-20 13:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men go long periods of time without talking to particular people once in every while. I have friends that I go weeks without talking to. There's nothing abnormal about it.
In fact, he might even be afraid of bothering you and doesn't want to call you every day for that reason.
Or it may be the opposite. If you talk to him too much, it may bother him.
Three days is no cause for alarm. If he goes weeks without talking to you, then there is a problem. Just don't try to talk to him too often, otherwise you may be labeled as "clingy". The timing sounds just about right to me, but I'm not an expert so don't take my word for it.
2007-05-20 13:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that maybe your bf just needed some space. He could have been busy if he had to work some overtime or if he is going to college he might be busy with finals and projects. The fact that he called you today to talked for along time must me he cares about you.
2007-05-20 13:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by sb0983 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he still likes you. He might have some things to do with his family. He might get tired and need a break from you, or he might have been hanging out with his friends and didnt have time to call and talk to you.
2007-05-20 13:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't mean he doesn't like you... it just means he is busy, mom/dad don't let him use the phone, he had chores, away on a trip anything.
Guys are different then girls they don't like to talk that much. They especially don't like to talk on the phone.
Talk to you mom and dad about this and they will be happy to answer any of your questions.
Good luck.
2007-05-20 13:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by Kathrine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you guys already talked then what's the problem. You should've brought that up if it was on your mind, right? I mean you are his girlfriend and you have the right to know what's going on. But then again did YOU try calling him? Did he ignore your calls? If that's the case then there's something wrong.
I'd talk to him about it..`=)
2007-05-20 13:35:12 · answer #7 · answered by T-NEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's into you, I havn't talked to my bf for 3 days to and he called me acting really insecure, I didn't like that because where not married.
2007-05-20 13:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by mya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only means that he is extremely emotionally immature, insecure, manipulative, controlling, stubborn, and most possibly not good bf material. Most girls would not put up with that. He sure has the upper hand over you and that, my little sweetie, is NOT good. Tell him you won't stand for that kind of manipulation and it is bye-bye.
2007-05-20 13:27:00 · answer #9 · answered by Lean on Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cos u talked tooooooo long on the phone and he is afraid of you! guys don't prefer to waste too much time on the phone; sometimes it might backfire.
might or might not be the reason, dun worry
2007-05-20 13:27:05 · answer #10 · answered by walawala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reality check babe......
a man "in love" with u won't need a reason to call u......he'll call u even if its just to hear ur voice...even if its form two minutes everyday...
so unless he's been kidnapped or he's been an active participant in a dumb rally, no calls from him for three days just means that he's not that into you.....
2007-05-20 13:27:59 · answer #11 · answered by pointless banter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋