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ok iv been talkin to this boy nicky and he says im hot az hell but how can i get him 2 ask me out because i really like him but i dont wanna make the 1st move!

2007-05-20 12:26:50 · 16 answers · asked by Briana B 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Get over it and make the first move or be so obvious that only a fool wouldn't know that you wanted to be asked out. After the fool doesn't ask you out, ask him.

2007-05-20 12:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Ed 4 · 0 0

Just as a matter of opinion, if he's not wanting to spend that kind of time with you, then chances are he's not worth his weight in salt as a boyfriend. There's a difference between "hot' and "Pretty... this is how I think of it...

Level 1 - Cute/Hot
This is the botton rung on the ladder of attraction. This sort of attraction is someone you have sex with a few times, but never at your own house. Then, after things have gone as far as you want them to, you change your phone number to avoid talking to them again.

Level 2 - Pretty
This person is someone you have slightly more than a physical relationship, but physical is about as far as the relationship goes emotion-wise. They're often just someone who is handy to have around on lonely nights.

Level 3 - Beautiful
This sort of relationship is a person whom you get along with very well... so well, in fact, that you might even consider waiting a little while before trying to have sex with them, so you can get to know them a bit better than physical means. This level of attraction, you may even want to live with them to get an idea of what married life with this person might be like. These sorts of relationships can often lead to marriages that wind up failing.

Level 4 - Gorgeous
The highest form of attraction in my rating system. This is the person who, when you kiss for the first time, causes your mind to go blank for a few seconds, while the mind catches up with its-self. This is a person who makes fireworks go off behind your eyelids during that first intimate kiss, and possibly can get love songs stuck in your head, should you know any. This is the level of attraction where talking can take precedence over sex... marriage is a definite possibility, because this person is the only one who ever crosses your mind; other women are all second-rate, and can even be below contempt for even asking about whether you're single or not. This person is everything you ever dreamt of, and is also much, much more.

But... this is just me talking. I don't speak for every guy in the world, so... yeah. You'll have to see about it yourself.

2007-05-20 19:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by bloodline_down 4 · 0 0

that's tough he hasnt asked what's his deal. Okay have the makeup & purfume on...wear a sexy hot dress & a pair of pointy pumps with your hair down...walk past him maybe then he'll take the shot. Make sure your legs are bare & lotioned shined...that gets my attention to ask a girl out, but i agree with the person who said to tell him are you going to ask me out or what? or when he says youre hot say well what then what's on your mind

2007-05-20 19:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Don't ask him out. Just say "what are you doing tonight...I'm not doing anything...I'm bored" etc. It's called dropping a hint. Give him that pouty look you give your dad when you want him to buy you a new pair of jeans or shoes. You know the look.

2007-05-20 19:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by martin h 6 · 0 0

You wait. That's the bad thing. You must wait, otherwise you'll make the first move and pretty soon he'll feel you're crowding him. Just wait!

2007-05-20 19:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by Kyle 6 · 0 0

just look alot more appealing 2 him and when he see's u he will ask u out

2007-05-20 19:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by jrhymes14 1 · 0 0

2 things:

Make it seem like u like him

and

you could also try telling one of his friends to ask you out.

I hope this helps and good luck!

2007-05-20 19:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by Zach S 4 · 0 0

just basically throw yourself at him
hang around him and show him what a great girl you are
he wont b able to resist

2007-05-20 19:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by Megan 3 · 0 0

do u know one of his friends maybe tell them and have them hint it to nicky boy ....

2007-05-20 19:30:47 · answer #9 · answered by shaun j 1 · 0 0

flirt. but not too much. let him know that you like him.make sure he doesnt have a gf already though

2007-05-20 19:30:01 · answer #10 · answered by C- Sgt. LAUDERDALE 2 · 0 0

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