Most of the girls ive been seeing lately just want to be friends with a lil side of benefits.. Why is it now days that the woman ive been getting to know just want this with me? I know of course not being committed but come on every girl i meet? I think its a little far fetched now.
2007-05-20 08:43:11 · 15 answers · asked by singledad83 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you unknowingly seek out these type of women- if you are seeing a pattern. But, I know many women that would love a serious relationship. There are obvious plenty out there- so keep looking! Maybe these women figure that men do it all the time, so why not try it themselves? Maybe you are just a sidedish, utnil someone else comes along. I hate to say it, but that is how some women work :(
2007-05-20 08:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by January 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Is that your kid in the photo?
More girls are going this route for the same reason a guy is probably the one who invented it:
Sex without commitment.
Women are becoming much more independent and don't want/have time for a relationship. This way they get to meet their sexual needs without the romantic hassles.
If you have a kid, that is probably more responsibility/hassle than they can handle.
I don't run into many girls that think this way so there are women out there. Keep searching for a girl that will meet ALL your needs!
2007-05-20 08:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by Matt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What may be happening is that girls are finding true feelings for their friends (whatever you want to call them) and that a little bit of benefits makes the relationship a lot sweeter. I may take the laundry out for this, but it may be a trend that you are seeing.
2007-05-20 08:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it depends on where you meeting them.
The place will determine what you get.
Also you need to realise we are living in a sexually charged time where it seems to be the only thing on their mind and the only thing that makes sense.
I wish you the best and hope you find what you are looking for.
Oh and you didnt say if you had a child, i c a child in the pic with you. Could it maybe be that?
2007-05-20 08:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by MichM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it totally depends on the girl, some really want a steady and solid relationship others just want to experement and mess around really but dont let it mess things up, be safe exc. girls like that generally have some sort of background which makes them feel unstable so be carefull :)
2016-05-22 02:32:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a girl with a boy that she's committed to. Then she wont actually think of you that way.
But I think it cant be helped, since probably ur soo hot girls cant think of you waste a chance of being with you by just being a friend. be happy, dude!
2007-05-20 08:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um......If your a too nice guy then that way. Like a real softy. Some girls like a little bad boy but a mix.
2007-05-20 08:48:36 · answer #7 · answered by Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with it till you find a girl who wants commitment.
2007-05-20 08:47:12 · answer #8 · answered by smileforawile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's been said, we attract what we extend.
However, in this day of woman's independence, females now act as males always have.
2007-05-20 08:47:54 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you agreed to it before? As long as you keep being their little boy toy,they will keep on keeping on.....just say NO,if it's really bothering you!
2007-05-20 08:48:37 · answer #10 · answered by FYIIM1KO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋