why is a mans main goal in life to hurt a women one way or another? If they r not going to play you, they r going to cheet or the best one of all, hit. Why r men like this?
2007-05-20 08:25:04 · 25 answers · asked by Tree 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is funny, i dont really hate men. I did just come out of an abusive relationship though. But, I know there are a lot of good men out there. LIGHTEN UP PEOPLE! is this how you treat people in pain. you all are great thanks for the responces.
2007-05-22 20:00:16 · update #1
Because of women like you.
2007-05-20 08:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Hate to tell you this but you probably don't rate high enough in a man's life for hurting you to be his main goal. Most of the men who do that stuff just plain don't care. They're not malicious or woman hating. They just do what they want and nevermind the consequences to anyone else. There are men who do care out there but you have to start looking at the men before you get involved.
2007-05-20 08:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think most men go out trying to hurt women, i think what happens is they get bored or they dont like being bossed around so they go elsewhere. i have yet to meet a man who doesnt have a huge ego..if you bruise that ego or dont stroke it enough, well, they dont have a use for you. pretty self centered i know but...they do not do it on purpose, they just dont know any better....
i think very few guys would actually hit a woman. sounds like you just came across some real losers.
men are different animals, they cannot understand how women think, trust me. i think they really only hear about 1 in 10 words we speak so they get confused and dont want to bother trying to figure out what the problem is. women go on and on and expect a man to understand, they dont. its as simple as that.
i dont think you should go through life with the attitude that all men are this way, they arent. and, even if they are, turn the tables a little, if they cheat on you, well, they werent worth it anyway, and move on.
good luck!
2007-05-20 08:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by chantel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think most men do not set out to hurt women, that's just the way it is. they want to see other people, meet as many cool women as they can, and get sex if possible. that means some of those women will get brushed aside, and that's what hurts. some men think they can get away with everything because they are so great/good looking/smart/rich/whatever. it's up to you to take a stand for yourself or to accept it. btw, men should never hit, there is no excuse to be like an animal.
2007-05-20 08:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by Fizzy Fizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all men are like that just the ones u think are right. u see a lot of men think they have to be some player or pimp butthose are the kind of guys that are gunna end up alone any great girl deserves a great guy they may hit a few bumps in the road to finding him but eventually u will just have faith and dont give up. when u realize ur man is playing u or cheating on u just dont give in to his lies leave him and forget him and u will find the one for u
2007-05-20 08:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by bluvr236 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is a mans goal in life to do so. It just happens. I am sure most men do not plan to do so, but then circumstances arises. I suppose there are a few rotton apples out there that do intentionally set out to do so. Some men do bad things and quickly learn what an *** he was, and some don't learn at all. But, I don't think it's fair to lump all men in this sort of catergory.
2007-05-20 08:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by January 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men only do it to easy girls like you. If you are a woman who is sick of being hurt by men try seeking out the good ones instead of being lazy and going for the one's who just want an easy lay.
P.S. Just as many women have an affair in marriage as men do.
2007-05-20 08:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by applemanteddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's in the DNA, and they're not all like this. Some yes, I'd say you just haven't found the right guy yet. Do you go for the same type of guy every time? That was my problem for a while, date someone you normally wouldn't and see how that turns out.
2007-05-20 08:29:10 · answer #8 · answered by Old Gregg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you that their are some men who cheet on their wives. and their are some men who resort to domestic violence.But you are wrong to put every man in this bracket as most men are decent .like me you have been unlucky and found the ones who are domineering and controling. But it is not only some men who are like that ,their is also some women like it to .and would you like to be judged the same as them i do not think that you would,so don't do it to all men eigther.
2007-05-20 08:49:44 · answer #9 · answered by joan_tipton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awee I dont think thats true. I hope not at least, or there is no hope for any of us. Im 19, and I have a baby with an incrediable guy, who pays bills and lets me stay at home with our son. He is wonderful, and yes we have had our bad times together. But really I think you should just be paient and wait for someone who is extreamly capitable with you. I do believe there is a solemate out there for everyone! Hang loose in an uptight world.
2007-05-20 08:31:35 · answer #10 · answered by Kim S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have had one too many bad relationships. get over it, i have guy friends who would never do that, so i know they are not all like that. besides that, was your father like that or the man who raised you? um, also are you a lesbien? cause you sound like either that or a feminist movement member. why cant it go back to the good old days where the femenist movement was about women having equal rights about stuff like voting and now its all about men hating.
2007-05-20 08:39:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋