my girl broke it off. help.?

Question

my girl broke it off because she said i was not affectionate enough and she couldnt feel that i loved her even though i sent flowers to her job every week, bought gifts and cards. what should i do to win her back. help.

Answer 1

Material goods are only good in small quantity. Sending them every week doesn't help. Girls like to be cuddled and kissed spontaneously. They like it when you just come up behind them and wrap your arms around them. Cards and flowers every week will become boring and unmeaningful. They like their hands held firmly and hugs from no where. Sometimes a simple note saying you love her is more than a truck full of flowers. re-learn your basics.

Oh hell if you want you can go and try apologizing and just hug her dont kiss her though unless she asks for it. Just my thought.

Answer 2

There's a difference between emotional investment and finacial investment. Tell her that you'll try better, and instead of sending her flowers, surprise her by visiting her at work, even if it's only for a few minutes. Do spontaneous things, like kissing in an empty elevator. Remind her continually about how much you care about her. It's the little things that count the most.

Answer 3

If she broke it off then there's really nothing you can do about it. You can't make her love you again and I can understand her part of the story also because if you didn't treat her or love her enough the way she wanted you too and to this moment, she's making you realize that you'll have to love her always. She might feel this way or at least wanted to feel (listen to this song: I think i'm in love-Shania Twain) and send it to her, make her feel special. Only you can tell what can really bring her back...Good Luck! :) [P.S. You Must Really Love her and that's all that matters...]

Answer 4

There are probably other reasons why the relation ship didn't work. Anyway, realize that flowers do not equal affection. She probably wants you to hold her close and irresistably charming things when she's feeling down. Don't focus so much on the physical or materialistic aspects of your relationship, but more one the emotional side. Show her through your words especially that you really treasure her and want her to be happy.

Answer 5

th eonly thing i can tell you is to move on to another girl that doesnt want a REALLY affecionate guy....that way you dont have to change and the not affectionate enough thing when you sent her flowers is prolly an excuse....like i said just move on

Answer 6

I'm so sorry, but if i were you... i would try getting a better girlfriend that will appreciate you more. she'll be so mad and jealous! but thats not important...stay with that girl and love harder than ever b-4. you seem like a really nice guy....make someone else think so 2. so good-bye honey to that other loser and say hey to that girl of your dreamz.

Answer 7

sweetheart, i think if she said she didnt think you were affectionate enough with what you did for her, then that was an excuse. I think you should move on because what you were doing was what i would want a boyfriend to do!

Answer 8

merely ask her to bounce if she merely taking a smash then all she would be able to do is say no. if she says definite then communicate over along with her on the dance floor . ask her call see what her reaction is and pass from there take it sluggish

Answer 9

Broke what off?

and...

Did she take it with her?

Answer 10

you must be poor lover in bed work on it..