2007-05-20 07:44:16 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
There is no way.
Don't you think fat people already Know they are fat?
Well They Do.
2007-05-20 07:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell her without being rude, and remember this:
Everyone creates their own reality. She is fat (barring severe glandular disturbance)because she eats too much. No one can control that but her. If she doesn't mind being fat, then let her be fat. Is she a nice person; does she have beautiful hair; does she have a pretty face. If she has either of these or other admirable attributes, concentrate on those. Take into your reality only those things that you like, compliment her on those, and remember, EVERYONE CREATES THEIR OWN REALITY. That may be difficult to accept, but you cannot do for them what they will not do for themselves!
2007-05-27 17:16:21 · answer #2 · answered by Smitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not.. I REPEAT.. DO NOT just bluntly tell her that she is fat. That is really hurtful. Yea.. even if she KNOWS that she is fat.. that is a truth that girls just don't want to hear.
If she is someone close to you, like a wife/girlfriend/sister/mother/friend, just let her know in a subtle way. Like one day, just say "hey.. I think we BOTH need to find some other activities.. lets go for a walk." That should be a great way to start out.
If she still doesn't take the hint.. the next time she is like "do these jeans make me look fat????" just tell her how you feel, but in a NICE way. Like "you know, sweetie, I am starting to worry about you. I am really concerned about all the junk food you have been eating.... blah blah blah" and just go from there.
Of course any girl is going to take it hard. Who wants to hear that they are FAT?!?!? I sure don't. But just let her know that you care about her and its better to hear if from you than getting your feelings hurt from some jerk.
But if you don't really know this woman, then its not your place to tell her she is fat (unless you are her doctor)
Hope that helps
2007-05-20 08:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Unless you are close to her and happen to know that her weight is causing her heart problems or diabetes or any other physical malady, you just don't. If it's not someone you're particularly close to, you don't. If she seems mobile, happy, relatively healthy, you have no reason to even give it much thought. If you're you're dating this person or are married to her and are just turned off by her weight, you might need to have a talk with her gently or ask yourself if this is someone you really want to be with. But putting it on her to lose weight because it makes YOU uncomfortable, that's YOUR problem, not hers. Basically, you haven't given enough info to go on but my feeling about your question is that there is no way to mention it without sounding rude, especially if you're not a husband or father who is worried for her health. So you should probably just shut it.
2007-05-24 14:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. That's not your place to say. However, if you are concerned with her health, which is not how your question comes across, then go on a diet WITH her. Show her how healthy food can taste good, and be an example, but if your reasoning is simply the aesthetic, then you are going to do nothing but hurt her feelings, and probably only exacerbate the problem.
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2007-05-20 10:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by Patrck B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an easy way not to be rude. Try minding your own business and not saying anything about somebodys life choices. It will make you a better person in the long run!!!
2007-05-27 05:04:39 · answer #7 · answered by Tracy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her to go on a heatlhy lifestyle program with you. That way the shame is minimized because it involves you too. Go with her to shop for healthy foods and split the bill. Go on daily walks together and support each other in times of weakness. You will both benefit and become better friends with a common project and goal in mind.
2007-05-20 07:58:16 · answer #8 · answered by eat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-05-20 07:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by Nora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fat people already know that they need to loose weight. I am fat and I know I need to loose weight. It is not always as easy as it may seem. So don't be rude to her. Look at whats on the inside of her not the outside. Don't be a jerk.
2007-05-20 07:49:00 · answer #10 · answered by Passion Parties by Tina 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How do you tell a rude, vain person to mind their own business without being equally rude?
2007-05-20 11:59:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋