Our relationship ended really badly...with him asking a girl out on myspace and me kicking him out of the house bc i found a new box of condoms and at the time we were not sleeping together...he said he never cheated...i had my share of problems in the relationship as well...i flirted with guys in front of him...told him to give me space, brought up the past, and got drunk in front of him which he didnt like...he left anyway...we didnt speak for a month...now ive called him to get some of his stuff...i suggested coffee...he wanted dinner...it was awkward...we keep running into eachother by accident...i called him this morning bc i had a really bad night last nite...i wanted to meet for breakfast...he said he was so sorry bc he was out of town but will be back tonight and hell call me...he tried to get me to tell him what happened...why does he even answer my calls? Does he care about me? Is it some kind of power thing? He is a very cocky guy but with a big heart...he also bragged
2007-05-20 06:43:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
while we were in the relationship about how he always stays friends with his ex's...hes got a lot of them...is this just fun for him? He did answer the phone at 930...i woke him up...why did he even answer? And hes out of town on a little vacation.
2007-05-20 06:44:25 · update #1
i have one question just why are you calling him? if he is your ex then quit calling him period.
2007-05-20 06:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by lostchild 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling him, forget your stuff, let him have it. This whole thing is gonna ruin anything that you may have right in front of you. What is it with some people not knowing when enough is enough and to just let go. If you see him in public, don't talk to him. You walk past a hundred other people every day, weather you know them or not, you don't talk to them. so just act like you don't know him and if he has a problem with that, too bad. You both are wasting each others time. Go get a hobby.
2007-05-20 13:48:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the guy has a big heart, he still cares about you but just as a friend...he sounds really sweet to me and i know somebody that cares for me like that..even though your relationship ended really badly, its been over a month..some people just need a little time to get over something then they're back to caring about you...So he still cares about you as a friend..and i think hes always going to be there for you when you need him..He sounds like the perfect guy friend to have..keep him close but dont let him lead you on.
2007-05-20 13:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by misswhooo? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like, although you had a stormy and rather immature relationship, he still wants to keep you around. What for is a mystery, but maybe you two can work this thing out.
2007-05-20 13:46:30 · answer #4 · answered by Aiden 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe breaking up doesn't mean he has to hate you and be mean to you.. i guess he could still be caring for you in a capacity of a friend. you're wondering about what he wants but i feel you should first ask yourself what you want.. if you have any doubts about where you stand with him, speak to him about it.. it's that simple.. somehow, it's difficult for ex-es to remain close friends especially when the breakup is not mutual.. think about it
2007-05-20 13:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he thinks of it as he lost you as a girlfriend already and he dont wanna lose you as a friend as well...thats how i look at it with the guys i date. im friends with a lot of my exboyfriends and all of them answer the phone when i call...it just means they enjoy hanging out with you that doesnt mean they like you as more than a friend. he might like you as more than a friend but it aint for sure just keep being friends with him...you could always use one more friend!!!
2007-05-20 13:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you calling him anyway? Get some dignity and don't just get your stuff and get out!!
--Oh so it's his stuff well whatever let him call u if he really wants them if he doesn't pick them up in...(u decide how many days he has) THROW THEM AWAY!!!!!!!!
2007-05-20 13:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by ♥{puεrtoяicaи. аиgεl}♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, hon u need 2 move on. he probably just wants 2 add u to the list of ex's who r now friends....he's a**hole, move on and get over him
2007-05-20 13:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why is he answering? why are YOU calling? leave it alone. pack up his stuff, tell him he has 2 days ot pick it up and never call him again.
2007-05-20 13:47:51 · answer #9 · answered by sxyvxn79 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
STOP CALLING HIM!!!
If he wants his stuff - he will ask for it.
2007-05-20 13:47:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋