my bf is cheating and i saw him i am really inlove with him and i am not ok with him cheating but i love him and don't want to break up what should i do ???
2007-05-20 05:26:16 · 24 answers · asked by koolmonkey96 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only thing you can do is break up.
2007-05-20 05:28:59 · answer #1 · answered by fizzy stuff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are feeling is completely normal. Your boyfriend hurt you very badly, but you can't help but to love him. What you should do is very complex. Do you think he wants to be with you? Is he not happy in the relationship? Does he know that you know about his cheating? Let's put it this way, when you tell him you know, you will figure out really quickly if he wants to be with you, or not. If he does not want to be with you, let him go. After all, it takes two to make a relationship work. However if he does want to be with you, there is a huge question you have to ask yourself. Can you trust him? And also, can you forgive and not hold this cheating against him if he makes an honest attempt to save your relationship? If the answer to either question is no, BREAK UP WITH HIM. Yes you can work it out, but it would take a lot of time to repair the trust. The question you have to ask: Is he worth it?
2007-05-20 05:33:48 · answer #2 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are acting foolish. He is a cheater and will always cheat on you. The fact that you are willing to over look that means that he will know you are allowing him to cheat whenever he wants. You need to understand this: he will not change and you can't change him!
Either accept the fact that he will cheat on you in the future, or get rid of him. Those are your only choices with this man.
Keep this in mind, when you kiss him think of where those lips might have been just an hour before.
2007-05-20 05:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough question with no easy an answer. Being in love is the most wonderful thing in the world, but being betrayed by the one you love hurts like nothing you've ever known before. It's hard to give you advice not knowing all circumstances, I can tell you from experience, if you stay with him (granted he's willing to stay with you) it's going to be a tough challenge, especially when the other female thinks she's got the right to threaten you for trying to keep him. Also the trust issue, it takes a very strong woman to stay with a cheater, sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't. If you're willing to put yourself through it, more power to ya, but know when enough is enough. Good luck to ya!!
2007-05-20 05:52:31 · answer #4 · answered by Queene-77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are willing to take his cheating then he will never change because there aren't any consequence for his action. A real woman wouldn't take that kind of crap and the only reason some women might take that kind of crap is because of children. Look, you're young and you can find someone better than him. I know you're in love; I was there once where my bf cheated on me so I dropped him like a hot pancake. If you are willing to take his cheating then he have no reason to change.
2007-05-20 05:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by deniseywalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not the best at this, but if you don't want to break up with him, then you need to talk to him find out why hes cheating on you. And then try to work it out, but the thing i really think you should do is to break up with him, cheating on people just isn't cool.
let me know how it works out o.k.
2007-05-20 12:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by D.J. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-05-22 09:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off. If a boyfriend cheats, what do you think a husband will do. There are good guys out there. Get rid of him. Have more respect for yourself. If he sees you accept his cheating, by staying, he will always cheat.
2007-05-20 05:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by Dianne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are "in love" with someone who has no integrity... someone who thinks so little of you that he'll use you... then that speaks to what you really think of yourself. Do you think so little of yourself that you would give your love to a man with no integrity? Is that how you treat yourself? Do you want to be treated like that? This is not about him. If he cheats on you now, he will always cheat on you. The question here is all about you and what you think of yourself...
2007-05-20 05:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by biggbilly03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't ANYTHING you can do. And you CAN EXPECT him to continue. I mean hey, you are putting up with it, I would even walk all over you. YOU NEED to address this and address it immediately. You need to tell him that he IS going to STOP seeing this other girl or guy and that is the end of it. IF he does not then dump him. BUT since you love him so much well you can expect he WILL continue to use you if you don't stop him now. My advice is DUMP HIM.
2007-05-20 05:33:11 · answer #10 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I suggest sweet and magnificent vengence... but you could talk to him about it, tell him you know and you want to give him a second chance. If he cares about you, he'll apolagise and never do it again out of sheer embarrassment and guilt. If he doesn't, then he'll break up with you there and then (thats the risk :/) And if he does hes not really worth it.
2007-05-20 05:32:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋