I really don't know, I tried not to, but I can't. He's in my mind and in my blood, 24/7. I wake up with his thoughts and go to bed with this thought.
I don't want to proceed with this relationship, there's nothing between us, we just met once by accident, never knew each other before. His thoughts make me very happy, i forget where I'm, what am I doing, when I think of him. May be that's why I want to keep him in my thoughts.
any ideas;, is it healthy.... I even don't know if he cares me or not.
2007-05-20 04:44:47 · 12 answers · asked by Just4YA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it's healthy. Unless, you're holding your breath for him or something. You shouldn't force yourself to not think of him. If he's in your thoughts then, let him be on them. You should try to talk to him. Random hi or something. You really don't want to waste your time with someone that you don't even talk to. But if you feel a connection between you both then that's great sign. Or maybe it's just a phase. People always think that they like someone, but then it turns out that they really don't. Whatever it is, try to make the best of it. Talk to him, you know? You'll feel proud of yourself. And he'll think it's good that you made the first move. ;] Good luck. Email me if you want, I am going through the same problem, too.
2007-05-20 04:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by xpartyinmypantsx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess u r after ur feelings not after him
u dnt even know him u just like the idea abt knowing
and tht is wrong till u try 2 tell him wt u feel or ignore it n carry on coz maybe he doesnt think abt u from the 1st place
if u need more help try 2 contact me IM me
good luck i would love 2 know wt happens wth u
2007-05-20 04:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by Y! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones
2007-05-20 04:47:20 · answer #3 · answered by davidmorem 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you don't have a life of your own, would be my guess. And you ask is this healthy? If he doesn't care for you and you're wasting your life on him, I don't think you would need a 2nd brain to figure that one out. Hello!!! Is anyone in there? Is anyone home? Get a life.
2007-05-20 04:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
you need to take it slow, find something else to do, and if you are at work try to keep your mind on work and don't think so much about him,remind your self that thinking of him will not pay the bills, same thing if you are a student. but you have to get your own life and not allow someone to take over your life.
2007-05-20 04:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. u can find out if he likes u or not by asking him! if u r friends and u talk alot then u can bring the big question up just in a normal converstion face to face to even over the phone!
2007-05-20 04:48:43 · answer #6 · answered by race_chick* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like love at first sight, why don't you give it a shot with him, you said there's nothing between you but how do you know if you've only met him once, why not meet up with him for a drink and see how you go from there?
2007-05-20 04:49:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its easy to loose yourself when you develop feelings for someone. You have to focus on other things because thinking about him will drive you mad. Get involved with other activities and tell your friends not to talk about him. Talking about the guy makes it worse. Just distract yourself everytime you start thinking about him.
2007-05-20 04:49:23 · answer #8 · answered by hollygolightly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its funny because i just asked this question
a lil while ago but to tell you the trut you probably
going through love at first sight i suggest you look
for him and try to get to know him
2007-05-20 04:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by redfairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think about him 24/7 cause youre inlove!
2007-05-20 04:47:51 · answer #10 · answered by Itsjustme 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋