Hi
I live alone in my house, I don't have many friends and the ones I do all have there own lives and relationships don't seem them much.
I split up with my x financee 2 years ago, we were together for 6 years. Now I am living alone for the first time ever, I had a fantastic live before with her always busy and in love.
It's been two years and I never thought I would still be in the same situation I am not mr confident, but can talk to people fine when I know them. I admit I am not one to walk up strangers and start chatting, I do go out on the town occasionally and have not meet anyone.
It's been two years and my hope has gone in a way, I am sick of working all week and then spending the weekend watching TV staring at four walls. I just want why I had before when I was happy, and feel like life is passing my by don't have any holidays or some one to cuddle up with etc.
I am just very lonely and sick of the same rountine, maybe I should go the docs?
2007-05-20 00:26:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Yeah but I just feel nothing is going to change as its been two years, I am sick of how life is at the min.
Don't know whats wrong with me, maybe I should just start asking random women out. If I could bring my confidence up enough to do so.
2007-05-20 05:39:24 · update #1
dude get a hobbie or some sort of outdoor activity and maby meet someone while doing it
2007-05-20 00:32:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are still stuck in the idea of that relationship and the sooner you accept it is really over and that your life id=s different the better for you. You should call on your old friends and yes it may be weird as perhaps your old friends are also friends with your ex, this is when you get to know who your friends are. You should try to make new friends or even acquaintances. Just remind yourself not to compare your life then and your friends the with the people you are meeting now. As for finding someone, that too will come, but really don't think you are ready for that type of relationship as you haven't let your ex go in your life. Wouldn't it be better to find your place as a single person and look for someone so that you can find your place ?
2007-05-20 07:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by Marisse R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living alone can be great. Personally I love it, because when I want noise and people, I can go out, and when I want peace and quiet, it's waiting for me there at home. Maybe your problem isn't "alone" so much as it is "without her". Perhaps now is the time to get to know yourself as you without a partner, and if you're bored being at home, go out and look for some fun, but not a relationship. If it happens, it happens, but if it doesn't, you'll be disappointed, and possibly you'll only be finding a replacement to fill the hole your ex left (which is never a good reason to get involved in a new relationship).
It might be difficult, but try to enjoy your time now, and view it as a period where you *choose* to be single in preparation for what's ahead, rather than living in an isolation that's been thrust upon you.
2007-05-20 07:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by Josella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you going to do at the docs ? unless there is a nurse or whatever at reception --- you're going nowhere --- you will need to get a life and get over it --- but find something outside of the idiot box --- you are not Robinson Crusoe --- lots like you --- you are probably not ' user friendly ' because you reckon you cant walk up the street and talk to someone --- mate join a club or association that you can mix with all sorts --- but don't push your barrow to hard --- because other people are there for their reasons --- which you will have to realise over time --- therein may lie an opportunity for you to meet a friend --- but don't take anything for granted --- and be patient --- don't blow it !! good luck .
as a PS keep your mouth shut and your ear to the ground .
2007-05-20 07:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by bill g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you gotta do is start hanging out at places where singles meet. Personally I avoid the 'cool' places and find better results in scenes where people can be themselves. Big point - Don't be desperate. Just be a person and talk to females like they are people - not objects of desire. Talk about anything - hell - even cars. Doesn't matter. Just talk - when the circumstances are right. Then when she starts talking - shut up. Listen a lot.
2007-05-20 07:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by Moondog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a doctor, You just need to let people Know that your both single and looking. Have you tried one of those match sites. Oh and I learned in class that people meet future partners at work so next time your on the job lookit your options.
2007-05-20 07:31:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
I'm single and i live with my parents, brothers and sisters. however, it's almost the same. everyone has his/her own life. i work all the week and watch TV all the weekend. i got sick of the same routine.
i don't think doctors will help. i found that we drive ourselves into this. all what you think about is work. you started to think you have your own life and don't have time for friends.
take care of yourself, don't lose hope. do appreciate your friends and coworkers. keep in touch with your family.
I'm sure one day you'll find the suitable person for you.
good luck :)
2007-05-20 07:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by a_taan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alone sucks. I met my wife in church. We share the same beliefs, The Bible.
Try attending this morning. Find someone you like and talk to her. There are lots of single women in churches.
2007-05-20 07:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by runner1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hope u r ok my friend that cud hav bin me writing that u r not on your own try and go 2 work if u can i dont now and u dont c a soul dont drink booze if u can makes u cry 2 much take care my friend tommy
2007-05-20 12:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋