My Mom doesnt really talk to me about like guys and sex and things most moms talk to their daughters as they grow up. and i really would like some one to talk to wat should i do????HELP
2007-05-19 22:44:40 · 10 answers · asked by nayeli_8a 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
You should start the conversation with your mom. Tell her that you have some questions and that you wanted to ask her before you went to someone who might give you the wrong answers. If she is concerned about you having sex or getting pregnant at a young age she will talk to you and applaud you for being mature enough to ask.
Good luck!
2007-05-20 01:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with some of the other answerer's..DON'T talk to other people on the net ..about this..people you trust are best.Your mother is the best ,unless you don't get on with her.Sex is something you learn at school now (at least the basics as you would from reading a book).but your mother would tell you the things you want to know.remember she's been through it.One piece of advice I can give you ..is don't feel you have to rush into having sex just because you can..find a nice boy..sorry nice isn't the right word ..decent boy which understands you is considerate and your parents find pleasant.even then take your time..fall in love first..sex is just an extension of love ..but is not love..
2007-05-19 23:04:47 · answer #2 · answered by silver44fox 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom that you have some questions and discuss it with her. Parents find it hard to approach their kids with that topic so make it easy on her and approach her with it. If she is adamant about not discussing sex then talk to an aunt or a close family friend. Even the nurse at school should be able to talk to you.
2007-05-19 22:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you need some one to talk to and if she feels uncomfortable with it, would she consider buying you some books. There are plenty on the market - have a look at Amazon.
I'm the mother of four children - two boys and two girls and I've never had a problem discussing things. Feel free to email me, if you want to.
2007-05-19 22:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you would like to talk about that but if she feels uncomfortable or just neglectful toward the subject. Find another adult you trust to talk to. My mother was really uncomfortable to talk to me when I was a teenager, but for some sort of weird reason she got over it by the time my brother was a teenager. WEIRD
Oh and please don't ask candler, you are really better off talking to someone you trust and it's sometimes better if it comes from a woman because they understand how you feel
2007-05-19 22:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my mom at the most will talk about period stuff but nothing else, which led me to be pretty confused. She didn't talk to me about sex till she heard though my psychologist that someone had asked me to cyber (online sex) with them and it was something that I almost did. (Around the age of 15)
So I can't talk to my mom about that kind of stuff, instead I talk to these guys about it and they understand and don't mind explaining.
I can understand that its hard to get it out and ask questions about that kind of stuff so just take your time, ask your mom when the time feels right.
Personally, I found it to be easier to talk to guys and people that didn't know me then to talk to my parents about it, so if you want you can email me or something.
2007-05-19 23:02:55 · answer #6 · answered by alexelric14 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to a family friend you are close to or leave a note for your mom saying you have questions and need her to answer them. if that doesnt go over so well with your mom maybe the school counsellor or a friends older sister can help answer your questions.
2007-05-20 03:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Ur mom doesn't talk to u about that, maybe u should try to ask her yourself, if not u can go to your doctor or gynecologist and ask him everything u want to know, he will tell u and help u to, trust me. A lot of my friends were doing that.
But start with your mom, if u see she doesn't really want to talk to u, then go to doctor.
2007-05-20 00:11:56 · answer #8 · answered by Martini5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, please don't talk about sex/boys to someone over the internet you don't know.
Perhaps your mum is just as uncomfortable as you and she doesn't know how to make the first move. I would bring up the subject and tell your mum how you feel, exactly what you have said here. I hope my girls will want to talk to me about sex and boys when they are older.
2007-05-19 22:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
What do you want to talk about?
2007-05-19 22:48:34 · answer #10 · answered by Fox 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋