2007-05-19 18:54:05 · 12 answers · asked by S. R. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes, my mother and I love each other but we got into a fight 4 weeks ago and she stopped talking to me (she always has this silent treatment thing) so I stopped talking to her because I was sick of giving in like I usually do.
Now she's getting really upset that I'm not talking to her but the only reason she talks to me is to tell me not to do something when I'm angry and then, I'm not in the mood to make peace.
We live under the same roof. It really sucks.
2007-05-19 19:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by SM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At some point in our lives, we all say or do something to someone we love that we may regret. The important thing - as soon as possible, tell them you are sorry, you love them and won't do it again. Life is precious and can be taken away faster than a blink of an eye. Don't wait until it is too late.
And, yes I have regretted something I said to my mom. Thankfully, she is still in the land of the living.
2007-05-20 02:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by Gina F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger I loved arcades, and once, I stole $5 from my mother's purse to go play when we went to the mall. My mother of course found out and was really disappointed in me, I could tell that the $5 were not important at all, but the fact that I betrayed her trust was hurting her more than anything. I had to work very hard to regain that trust, but the important this is that a mother's love is unconditional and they are very forgiving. Sometimes they feel even worse because they think they have failed as parents or not doing enough. I can say that now being a parent myself. Go apologize and talk it out, because parents are blood and there is no other person that is going to be there for you more than them. Hope this helps and good luck!
2007-05-20 02:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by Organized Chaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most to the point thing I can say is tell your mom you regret being an @ss and beg her forgiveness. How ever I might add do not address her again in this way. She is the one person when shes gone that will break your total heart guaranteed.
2007-05-20 01:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by kim 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, this was ages and ages ago but when I was 15 I broke her finger by grabbing it when we had a fight during Monopoly. I also yelled obsenities at her. We had many turbulent times. Sorry's have been said and it was long ago.
Those teen years are a ***ch.
I'll be facing them again, this time with my own daughter...in a few years.
God help us!!!!
2007-05-20 01:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by jabbergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Plenty of times. But after i feel guilty a go straight to her, say sorry and give her a big hug and then its all good. Good luck!
2007-05-20 01:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by Meee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, i told her that i hated her and that she should go to hell. It was the heat of the moment and i shouldn't have said that. I was really upset, but I know i love her. I also know i would fall apart if she wasn't here.
2007-05-20 02:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I didn't spend much time with my Mom after I got married, i didn't tell her she was still my best friend and I loved her enough. Now she is gone and I can't tell her.
2007-05-20 06:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by Mikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes several times and my father too but apologize talk and then go on. parents are usually very forgiving. and later your kids will even the score for them believe that.
2007-05-20 02:34:37 · answer #9 · answered by tott1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, but good mothers are very forgiving. Just apolojize and try to make it up to her.
2007-05-20 01:56:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋