2007-05-19 17:13:30 · 10 answers · asked by fluffy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex and love are not synonymous, nor is one necessary for the other.
2007-05-19 17:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
An immature one does. (yes, they come in all ages).
Over the years, I have met some pretty immature guys and some very together guys.
The "together" guys know how to be with the woman they love and no one else.
The "immature" guys always had way too many problems in other areas of their lives as well to make them "date worthy".
If he has sex just for the sake of sex WHILE claiming to be in love with ONE woman, then he has some very deep issues .. one of which is honesty and another of which is loyalty... and the list goes on. (denial, selfishness, narcissism.... )
Now.. I am most concerned if he is engaged or married to this person he really loves when he cheats. If so, there are huge problems.
If he is just in the dating stage (and believe me, he considers himself to be fair game for other women if he looks at it this way).. then he is not the sort of guy to get exclusive with and he will "break your heart" again and again.
Funny thing about the expression "break your heart". In reality, you broke your own heart because you did not demand respect, and you let him repeatedly do something that you have told him will hurt you... so you hold some of the blame when your heart gets broken like that. Don't let that happen to you, ok? Eyes wide open.. pay attention and while you may give one chance, never give two chances where this subject is concerned.
Hugs!
2007-05-20 00:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by starshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't about love at all.
This is about his bad character & his lack of good morals. This is a permanent personality flaw that he will forever have.
Your job is to love yourself more than him & not choose him as a mate.
This is YOUR choice.
2007-05-20 00:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they would not or else they would be cheating on the girl they love.
2007-05-20 00:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by Perrian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was confused about the person he loved, then maybe. but otherwise no, you would never want to be with anyone but that one person, because what you feel for them is soo great.
2007-05-20 00:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by suhjuhduh♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not in love, simple as that. Men who are in love don't stray or want to.
2007-05-20 00:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not in love! If he was..he wouldn't even be looking!
2007-05-20 00:17:49 · answer #7 · answered by sickoflies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say he not in love he in lust, and who ever he is with
need to leave him along he playing with there heart.
2007-05-20 00:19:33 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then he's not in the love
2007-05-20 00:16:47 · answer #9 · answered by cutie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men in "love" don't have affairs, however women do.
2007-05-20 00:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋