Ok, me and my girlfriend broke up one week ago, and I see that shes completely over it, but I still love her, and this feeling, you loving a person, but the other doesnt, its just awful.
She just broke up because she said that she didnt want a boyfriend anymore, what should I do?
2007-05-19 16:51:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Very good lesson here. The majority of the time when women break up they had already in their mind ended the relationship weeks or months ago.
The best thing to do is to move on. If you try to crawl back or whine she will lose respect for you and say "I made the right decision".
Were you expecting this, if not why not? You should have recognized the signals. Sometimes there is nothing you can do. Especially for younger people, this is just normal.
Good luck.
2007-05-19 17:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by Gatsby216 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Roberto, there is an old saying "if you love someone set them free. If they come back to you it was meant to be." Your girlfriend felt that is was time for her to move on. I know that you are hurting, but if you really love her then you will respect her wishes and go on with your life as well.
In relationships, as in life, there are always two sides to every story. And while I'm sure that she once shared your feelings, today she is no longer in love with you. You are a great guy and there are millions of women out in the world wishing they could have someone like you. So, dry the tears, lock your memories away in the closet, put your best foot forward and get out there and find a new love. Don't waste another minute worrying about the past. The future is now! Make it happen! Good luck.
2007-05-20 00:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... I'd say either she is just tryin to make you jealous. Or she really wants to move on... maybe she just wasn't diggin you... I'm not tryin to sound harsh or anything... but there's so many more people out there to date. Besides it drives a girl crazy when a guy gets over a break up faster or just as fast as they do. I'd say you should go have fun... go on a few dates... it couldn't be that bad.
2007-05-19 23:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by Nelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel she loves you too, give her time and try to find out what caused her change,..if not, move on as fast as u can and never look back
2007-05-19 23:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by Mino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time, work though your feelings and emotions. And in a month or so, then if you still feel the same tell her.
2007-05-19 23:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is waiting for you to propose to her. She doesn't want to have a boyfriend anymore. She wants a husband.
2007-05-19 23:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by Tourang B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont want to be mean but you should build a bridge and get over it.or make her see that other girls want you .jealousy jejeje
2007-05-19 23:56:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with someone else ASAP
2007-05-19 23:54:34 · answer #8 · answered by crabby_wabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go. and dont disturb her. and dont ask her for any explanation - the truth wont be good to hear. find another girl...
2007-05-19 23:56:48 · answer #9 · answered by vanilla latte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her youlove her and that your free if she wants to date again.
2007-05-19 23:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by evil mushroom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋