well im a foster child and my real mother alwas been in a abusive relationship and she is n one right now thats y she cant have us back but i wanna know why shes with a guy who doesn't care bout her n why do she have to take things that dont belong to her like my aunts money when she knows its there for her
2007-05-19 16:41:51 · 7 answers · asked by Mrs.Dyson 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
your mom has low self esteem and its hard for her to leave. sometimes people do not see bad qualities in people until it's too late and then they already have to much love for that person to leave. sometimes people are scared to be alone. sometimes people are weak. your mom just needs to learn howto be independant but trsut me its easier said than done. i don't know why your mom steals from your aunt. sounds like that is a different issue. your mom is just going to have to learn on her own. don't totally hate her though because moms are not perfect. you will learn that one day. sometimes people have a hard time making it in this world.
2007-05-19 16:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by Just Wondering 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you have to face this type of difficult situation. It must be very frustrating.
These are complicated questions and you probably will need some professional advice over a period of time. You might look for a support group or some counseling.
Some people get into abusive relationships and then can not find a way to get out.
The theft could be because she mismanages her money and then wants to quick fix, or just does not have high standards for herself, ie if something is there it is OK to take it. Most people do this through rationalization, and not a simple right and wrong issue.
2007-05-19 23:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by Gatsby216 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may never know why she does these things. She probably had alot of rough times in her life and instead of rising above them she chose to let them destroy her. Please don't take it personally. There is nothing you could have done to change her... only she has the power to do that. You just use this as your example of who not to be and make something of yourself in life!
2007-05-19 23:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by az_mommma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is numerous reason why this could be, but my focus would be on drugs. maybe your aunt knows what she's going to do with the money, and she don't (your mom) want to be lectured. be patient with her and pray for her, she'll eventually be a good mom to you, promise
2007-05-19 23:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some people think that there not loved unless they get hit on like my mom. and some people take stuff thats not theres because they want fast money.
2007-05-19 23:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by tiffany i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to say but i hope your life gets better may you be strong and independent and may you succeed at whatever you decide to do with your life.
2007-05-20 00:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by william w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has alot of problems to deal with . couselling may help her...
2007-05-19 23:48:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋