She always watches my house , what should I do? I feel like Im always being watched....She is also very mean
2007-05-19 15:28:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
u can do 2 things...
1.) tell her off, ask her why she's doing it
OR
2.) do what she's doing and see how she likes it. plus, this will give you the opportunity to let her realize that you know she's watching you.
2007-05-19 16:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by Alyssa Lynn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you could always give her something to see.....lol, no this really is a serious problem as you are unable to have a decent level of privacy in your own home. One solution could be to put up blinds, but that is rather unfair for you, as most people like to save on electricity during the day and bask in natural light. You could contact the police and ask if there's anything they could do about this neighbor. If they can't do anything I would suggest giving her a taste of her own medicine. Get a pair of binoculars and make it real obvious that you are looking into her home. Maybe then she will realize just how invasive she is being.
2007-05-20 00:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by Lwood 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We had a neighbor like that. We just laughed and played with her. Our favorite beer came in bottles and we bought it by the case. I saved up 5 empty cases. And about 2 X per week, I would wheel those empty cases out to my car, go to the grocery store for bread & milk, then wheel the 5 empty cases back into the house. We had a very good male friend. When we knew he was coming over, I would move my car down around the corner and sneak back into our house. Then they thought he was visiting my wife when I wasn't home. We did all kinds of things like that. One of my wife's high school classmates was a local police officer. He had our neighbor hood as his beat. He would take his breaks at our house and leave his bubble lights going while he was parked in front of our house.
2007-05-19 23:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wave to her everytime you see her watching & yell hello. Also, either get binoculars or a telescope (even a child's) and be very obvious that you are watching her and her house. If this does not stop her, talk with her - quietly and unemotionally. If this doesn't help, maybe you and your neighbors could all put lawn chairs out and sit and watch her house for awhile and see how she likes it.
2007-05-19 23:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by Santa's Elf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine had a similar problem in a place where she was living. So, one day she borrowed her son's binoculars and when she was checking the neighbors place out, lo and behold, the neighbor was checking out hers. Caught in the act! I bet the neighbor never did it again! Or....you could walk around naked. She may never choose to watch you again. She obviously has nothing better to do and if it doesn't stop, see if there is anything you can do as far as legally.
2007-05-21 05:35:38 · answer #5 · answered by Gracie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first it seems that we have all had at least one like that.The thing you might want to try is watching her back.take one side of your curtain and prop it open a little right towards her house.like near her bedroom.or when you are outside and you see her have a phone like you are talking and just point her way.allways waive at her and belive me she will get annoyed at you and soon leave you alone.the saying kill them with kindness will work.or piss her off where she will stop.if this dont work when you know she is not going to stop.you can wait till u know shes watching and show her the biggest moon she has ever seen.good luck.
2007-05-19 22:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by mamadee561 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a time when revenge can be sweet. unfortunatly, i don't know any good comebacks for you. you could try really giving her something to watch.
2007-05-19 22:31:38 · answer #7 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a nice show a real nice show, or hold up a nice sign that says I see you watching me
2007-05-20 12:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wave and smile, if she knows that you know she's watching you, chances are, she'll stop.
2007-05-19 22:31:37 · answer #9 · answered by mightymite1957 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cover your windows with curtains. Throw kaka on her front porch and see what her reaction is. If she get's happy, then she loves you. If she get's pissed.. then she just want's you in bed. I suggest you take the first one ahaaha
2007-05-19 22:31:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋