is there any guy that gently touches a woman, never hurts her, listens to her, understands her. anyone? or do I have to become a lesbian? its so hard to find someone like this.
2007-05-19 12:01:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Umm yea there is. But their the guys that you probly turn down. Chose just to be friends, Or are too shy to approach you.
You dont need to say all men are useless jerks just because there the only ones u choose to date.
2007-05-19 12:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are men out there who understand, listen, and try not to hurt women. But whether they can be like this all the time is maybe unrealistic. When you are with someone you are bound to say or do things that may end up hurting them. You may not try to, but sometimes it’s inevitable, fights come with the territory. Some men are basically great guys, but they do have their days when they are less understanding, and less motivated to listen and take your feelings into consideration. Women tend to be a bit more emotional and some expect their men to be in tune to their feelings and wants all the time, which is not very easy for a lot of guys. Generally I think dating is hard work. You meet a lot of me who are not good for you, and it can turn you against their particular sex as a whole, it can make you fed up and tired of coping with their less attractive attributes. But when you find someone compatible and who you love then it may all be worth the battle. I went out with a lot of jerks before I met my fiancé but it was worth it in the end. Meeting these types of men I learned a lot, I learned what qualities in people I really liked and which ones I could live without. I’m not saying that I met the perfect guy, who always listens and always understands there is no perfect anyone, but he does the best he can and for the most part he is fairly good at it. Maybe you should hold off on turning to the opposite sex as a last resort for now, even women can be hard to get along with, may not always understand, may not always do things that show they care, and they will come with their flaws too.
Good luck.
2007-05-19 19:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are still some gentlemen out there who treat women with respect. I have a great deal of respect for women and I guess I'm a bit old fashioned because I still open doors for ladies and help them if I see that they need help. I am happily married and I like to think I am a good, caring husband. I believe in taking care of your girl and treating her kindly. Keep looking, there are some out there but I guess these days they're hard to find.
2007-05-19 19:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Despite what you may beleive, there are great, sincere guys out there. Don't lose faith in an entire gender just because of actions made by a few guys. Just keep your options open and look for the GOOD in men, not the bad. Yes, there will always be guys that just want to get in your pants. But don't let them make you blind to the really great guys who reaclly do respct you and care about your feelings.
2007-05-19 19:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by prettynpink0491 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes thier is, but you're probably not into those guys for some reason or another. Consider what may have happened in your past and then try to get together with the 'guy' who may not be exactly what you would absolutely like but he may be the one who treats you right. Ofcourse, you have to remember that everyone has bad days now and again too. Goodluck and God bless.
2007-05-27 15:55:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gorgeous I'm forty-one and haven't met a decent man yet and have went on the other side only to realize that its unnatural affection but i cant say i didn't like being with a woman physically and mentally but it doesent mix with my spiritual side and God is who i want to please I'm a hopeless romantic i want a man with something a car a job his own place flowers kind words little things not all the big things and i attract the worst nice looking men driving there grand-mamas hoop ties and living with there sister or aunt or just got out of jail or whore mongers who are allergic to water and soap and I'm beautiful inside and out professional with three jobs and very giving but cant meet anyone to meet me half way what is up i don't know i asked god to make me one out of dirt or if he will give me a reformed gay man who doesent have aids good luck beautiful their are slim pick ins
2007-05-27 16:43:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are a lot of them. However, the woman will most like pick the man that will not treat her as she wants.
2007-05-19 19:11:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha!!! They tell you they are wonderful and understand you and lie to your face. Don't believe them....be very careful. The smooth talkers are the worst, run away when you find one of those.
2007-05-19 19:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by Maureen F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are men like that out there but they are few and far between if you find one do not let him go
2007-05-27 14:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just doesn't look at the right place. those man doesn't get out often... you'll meet them in weird place (on a bus, at the alone at the cinema, library......)
2007-05-19 19:06:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋