2007-05-19 11:30:35 · 13 answers · asked by esso_crazy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really love that dude you must go for him. Tell him that you love him, you want him to be your friend, and give him time to decide.. If he really love you, or love you as a friend, he would go for you too... show him that you care, get his attention and talk together in private... Make friends with his friends, as a one relationship, and in the future.
2007-05-19 11:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by Angelo D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's better to keep it to yourself.
One you do not want to be seen as the person who breaks up relationships.
Two if he has the capability to dump his current girlfriend for another girl or even to play around with another girl while he still has a gf means he's not worth your time and he will do the same to you.
If you guys were "meant to be" then in the end it will happen without you having to lift a finger.
Hopefully you wont get a verbal abuse from the general population from this question =)
Anyway, there are still a lot of people out there. And yes, you will feel that way again only when it happens it'll be like the first time you felt that way and you will have forgotten that you had felt that way. While he is with someone else, try not to disrupt the peace. Swallow your own feelings and lock it away.
^^
2007-05-19 11:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by demi-kun 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing that you are a moral person or you wouldn't be asking this question. So do not pursue a guy with a girlfriend because you will not feel good about yourself for doing so.
If your relationship with this guy is meant to be, then it will happen eventually. But it may not be the right thing, certainly not now and maybe never, so keep fishing. There are many great guys out there who are completely single!
2007-05-19 11:35:36 · answer #3 · answered by Lucy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should keep it to yourself and try to let the feelings go. He has a girlfriend. How would you like it if you had a boyfriend and some other girl came up to your boyfriend professing feelings for him? Remember what goes around comes around. Be an honorable lady with integrity and let the feelings for him go. He is already in a relationship.
2007-05-19 11:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been through the same thing many times. Don't tell him how you feel just yet. Let him work out his feelings for his girrlfriend first. Continue to be there for him and be a good friend to him. You can still improve your relationship with him even if you arent together yet. When him and his giirlfriend break up, which they will, show him that you support him and that you are always there for him if he needs to talk. He will realize how much you mean to him and he will realize that he realy likes you too.
2007-05-19 11:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by prettynpink0491 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl....you'll call me a lifesaver after this! KEEP IT TO YOURSELF!!! Boys with girlfriends are bad news!!! He will see that him having this girlfriend isn't a problem and will try to have his cake and eat it to!!! you don't want this. You will only break your own heart! Ask me how I know this....
2007-05-19 11:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep it to yourself, but try to get rid of his girlfriend other ways.
One of my personal favorites is like..making a batch of cookies and putting laxatives in it, and then give it to him from his girlfriend. After eating those, he'll want that relationship over before his second trip to the bathroom!
2007-05-19 11:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
They say all is fair in love and war. If his relationship isn't serious with the other girl than give it a shot. If, on the other hand, he is about to marry her; then forever hold your peace.
To intice him you could suggest doing something fun, you know, all 3 of you.
2007-05-19 11:34:42 · answer #8 · answered by Chitalian 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep it to yourself. He has a girlfriend. I don't think she would appreciate you trying to get her man.
2007-05-19 11:34:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep it to yourself. respect your boundaries. If you had a boyfriend and someone really liked him as you do this guy, wouldn't you feel a little bit "invaded"?
2007-05-19 11:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋