I'm trying to be a gentleman about it( something other guys don't do, I've noticed...) Anyhow please give me your insight...
2007-05-19 10:30:38 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's nice, go ahead and tell her, I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for you. Good Luck
2007-05-19 10:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by vickie m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls are usually flattered when a guy tells them he likes them. They would only be offended if you were rude to them. So if your a gentleman, why not go for it. The worst she could say is she does not feel the same way about you, but then again maybe she does. The point is you'll never know unless you try.
2007-05-19 10:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think in that line?
Did you offend in the past any?was it the language used or the way you said it , that was the reason for the girl to be offended?
Now that you have changed and want to be a gentleman, definitely ,I hope, you will tell in a gentle way.then it becomes a compliment to any girl because no offence is there.
SO GO AHEAD.ALL THE BEST.
2007-05-19 11:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by Radhakrishna( prrkrishna) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think a girl would b offended just because u told her u like her. being a gentleman about it would be the best way 2 approach it instead of acting like an immature. love cant offend some1...it can only hurt or make them happy. either u r lonely, some1 is making u happy, or u just got ur heart broken. by telling her, she wont b offended...but she may not like u back. if u approach her the right way and use a charm that convinces her...she more and likely say yes. as a girl, i kno wen he is charming and has some sense of manners i cant turn him down. so give it ur best shot...but she wont b offended.
2007-05-19 10:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by XxdaredevilxX09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try and become friends with her, and see if she feels the same way, suggest hanging out sometime. But no she shouldnt be offended by you telling her that you like her, however if she doesnt like you back you'll need to just move on and dont seem bothered :)
Good luck!
2007-05-19 10:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think she would be offended at all !! You never know until you try,she might have the same feelings for you in return,but if you tell her and she doesn't have the same feelings don't get discouraged there are more"fish in the sea"!!!! Good Luck !!
2007-05-20 02:07:04 · answer #6 · answered by midnightsmokerchic23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know im one of these girls who if i think a guy is chatting me up or something (a very rare ocassion if i may add!) i clam up and get all defensive.
So i think to be a gentleman dont just dive in; be subtle and say it when you think the time is right.
Best of luck
2007-05-19 11:08:27 · answer #7 · answered by i_heart_retro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a female point of view she shouldn't be offended. It is flattering if she doesn't like you or will give her the opportunity to fess up her own feelings. If she is offended, move on.
2007-05-19 10:34:40 · answer #8 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you found out a girl liked you but didn't tell you at the time, wouldn't you be offended? So, the answer is NO. It's more offensive not to tell her.
2007-05-19 10:33:12 · answer #9 · answered by Zeltar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not, Take the plunge and tell her how you feel, its not a (gentleman) but the honesty that you bring she will like. Good Luck
2007-05-19 10:34:43 · answer #10 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it all depends on how you say it. I mean, I wouldn't be OFFENDED if some guy was like "I like you", but she may think you're a little weird. If you're friends and stuff already I think it would be fine.
2007-05-19 10:35:09 · answer #11 · answered by Jaycie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋