Ok, I was dating this guy for about 9 months and it was going SO good until he dumps me for this girl he has known 3 years before me. Well, I think he is like madly in love with his girlfriend now, after me, who he has been dating for over a year. But he is always flirting me and stuff like that, ya'll know. I want to tell him to get rid of her and mabye try to get us to go back out but I dont know the right thing to say and school is out in four days so thats all the time I have to do this. What should I say to him or do?
2007-05-19 08:53:59 · 14 answers · asked by Susan R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should say or do NOTHING.Leave the man to live his own life.Get your own.
2007-05-19 08:56:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing, he dump u to be with that other girl. Now he's likes u but he's in love with her. If he wanted to be with u he would of asked u to be his girl. Move on and find another guy. DOn't waste ur time thinking he is going to break up with his gf and go with u, he broke up to be with her. Don't think he's gonna leave her anyitme soon. Ignore him or don't even hang with him as much. Guys are flirts but that doesn't mean they like u. Just watch urself.
2007-05-19 09:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that he just likes being desired by someone and is pulling you along. If he seems to love this other woman then let him be happy. I would want someone I loved to be happy even if that meant not with me. Wait till summer...hit all the hotspots with some single girlfriends and find yourself a new, shiny man!! Never waste your time on a man that doesn't have a clue that you're number one! Good Luck!
2007-05-19 09:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this might not be what you wanna hear but do and say nothing and move on :) dont make yourself look desperate. go out and meet new ppl and find someone who is madly in love with you and not his ex :) it is hard at first but in no time you will be like ex who?
2007-05-19 09:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes her more, then there's nothing you can say or do to win him over. If he flirts with you, while attached and you still have feelings for him, remember this, he's a jerk.
Forget him. If he wanted you, he would've returned already. Get on with your life, you don't need him.
2007-05-19 08:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Middle school called, they said they need their drama back. he's your EX for a REASON chicky. You need to let him move on with his life. He's only playing with your heart because it makes him feel manly to have 2 girls for himself. He's not gonna dump her if he really likes her. Move on and find yourself a man of your own who will love you forever
2007-05-19 08:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by nobody is home 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he dumped u in other words no interest....ur a girl thats y he flirts...with u and others respect urself dont talk 2 him
2007-05-19 09:03:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you leave the man you love,for a guy you liked for 18months? be real he will never leave her for you,get out and start dating new people you will be fine,and it will set your soul at ease too.
2007-05-19 09:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say goodbye. He has a girlfriend!
2007-05-19 08:56:38 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really wanted him you would have shown him already. But he's probably *not* worth it.
2007-05-19 08:58:31 · answer #10 · answered by Jeska J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋